Is divorce the answer to unhappy marriage?

Yeah! That could be acceptable. But there should be enough reasons why it's life threatening. Thank you sooooo much for your time and God Bless. ??

Yeah! Exactly. If he/she was worth marrying then he/she was worth keeping.. ;) Thank you sooooooo much for the time and God Bless! ??

Yup! Exactly. Building a good family for years isn't easy just to give up in a day. Don't give up all your hardwork during courtships, dates, etc. Somehow there's something in you why you get married. Thank you for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. Thanks a lot! ??

Yup! That's right. I think enough will not be enough for that.. ehhee Thank you for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. Thanks a lot! ??

Yup! That's what most probably happen after divorce. Sometimes it's only the welfare of the parents, they are after. NOt thinking of what can possibly happen to the children. It's most likely to be discuss to both sides. Thank you sooooooooo much for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. THanks a lot! ??

Yeah! I think that's also the reason why we really have to think hard before we decide to get married. :) Getting married should not be as easy as getting divorced as well. Thank you soooo much for the time. God Bless! ??

Yeah! Definitely right. But sometimes it's easy to say than done. Because I have observed mostly, months after marriage they get a divorce. Even celebrities do that. It's rampant on TV and media. I think they are the only ones who know the reason. Thanks for your time. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. Thanks a lot! ??

Circumstance does matter. My parents seperated when I was 12. It worked out for the best for all of us, my brothers included. Whwen I was 5 I wouldn't have said that, life was perfect. And now that me and my brothers are mature and left or are leaving home they would probably be a good couple again. Things are always changing. Sometimes people need to break up, in some cases it makes people realise how much they really do love each other. A two parent family isn't alweays best for the kid if the parents can't get along.

Yeah! Sometimes, there's a need to be divorced. That's why, getting married is not as easy as 1-2-3. You have to think it really hard and expect it's possible circumstances. I doubt how you started your relationship, if it has a spark or not. Perhaps you think of what happened why she was doing that. Try to talk it over, for the sake of your kid/s. Thank you for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. THanks a lot! ??

Sorry, don't take this the wrong way, but man what a simplistic view of the world you must have. I am guessing you are not married. I am not divorced yet, but I am separated, and there is a child involved. You know what sometimes it is better to walk away. Let me address your so called failures. 1: failing in your choice at marriege: Well yes, but can someone be blamed because they didn't know what a person would be like years down the road. 2: No succeeding to stay married: ummm ok, obvious one there, but it is a two way street and sometimes the other side of the street is abandoned. 3: Not beeing capable of completing what you have started: Ok so what you are suggesting is that you should stay married no matter what right? Well what if the other person in the relationship just isn't there. Take my situation I had a wife who went out every night until I enforced a once a week "date night" (which she ditched me on on several occasions), I found her cheating on me, and I endured all sorts of verbal abuse from her. 4: Ok who says anyone is innocent in a divorce? Did I deserve what my wife did to me, no, did she deserve everything I did and said since I found some of the stuff out, probably not. No one is blameless, but nor do I think that someone who gets divorced is a failure either.

Yup! That's right. Having in love once, can happen also twice. Feel the love they used to before. Thank you sooooooo much for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. THanks a lot! ??

I agree.True love just doesn't go away. Hopfully the couple can regain what they had.

There should have reason why they aren't happy. Perhaps they should figure out the problem then look for solution other than divorce. If you have both fall in love once, then you can fall in love again. There's no doubt about it. Just don't give up. Show to him/her that you need her. That you can't live without him/her. I don't think divorce still possible. You can't give up a relationship in just a day that you build for years. Thank you for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts asw ell. Thanks a lot! ??

If you think she was happy after what happened then I can say that what you did was the best for both of you. But if what happened just created more problems then I will say that you court her back.. ehehehe You made it once so I will not be surprised if you make her fall again. Just do what you think is right. Thank you sooooo much for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. Thanks a lot! ??

I wouldn't say she is happier exactly, but that is no longer my concern, my concern is the happiness and wellbeing of my daughter and myself. I care for her and worry about her future, but I can no longer worry about her happiness. She already has a new boyfriend and she isn't even out of the house, in fact I have very good reasons to believe her and her new boyfriend were together long before our separation, and even if they weren't she was cheating on me with others. I have no intention whatsoever of courting her back.

Oh! I see. I can't decide for you since you know her more than me. But I hope you're happy as well after what happened. Just keep going and enjoy life. Thank you for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. Thanks a lot! ??

Yeah! But still they come to a point where they have to divorce. I just don't get it why. Anyways, thank you sooooooo much for your time. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. Thanks a lot! ??

It's a good thing for what happened to you I guess.. ;) Thank you soooooo much for giving some time to my post. Thanks a lot! ??

Yup! I think that's tooooooo much. Maybe divorce was really needed for that case. But you should have also know why your father is doing that. It's usually the kids that will touch a father's heart. Always remember that. Thank you for giving some time to my post. I hope you'll have time to read my other posts as well. THanks a lot! ??

This is to bad. She taught her children to accept abuse and or to become abusers. She should have stopped it as it started and then if it didnt stop gotten out. I am not blaming the victum though. Our society needs to provide a safe outlet for abuse victums. I also think this is much more than just unhappy.

Yeah! It's really tough but sometimes people just do it as easy as possible. Not thinking that there are other people involved. I'm sure it's pretty tough for both of you two. I hope you'll get along well. Thank you sooooooooooooo much for giving some time to my post. Thanks a lot! ??

Yeah! Absolutely right. Love is the only key that will take your troubles away. Thanks a lot! ??

Yeah! You have some point there. But I think not all the people getting divorced have that some kind of a reason.. :D It's personal I guess. Anyways, thank you soooo much for your time and GOd Bless.. ??

Yeah! That's right. It is easier to turn away from the responsibilities than face them. That's probably one of the reasons why most people going for divorce. Thank you soooo much for your time and God Bless.. ??

Yeah! That's mostly what's happening. They tend to forget the responsibility and just look for happiness. Thank you for pointing that out. Thank you sooooo much for the time and God Bless! ??

Yup! Exactly what I mean. The problem will never be solved until you fixed them. Getting divorce will I think create another problem. Thank you soooo much for your time and God Bless.. ??