Men

Singapore
October 11, 2006 10:59am CST
what do they really want??
3 people like this
19 responses
@Gwenshin (171)
• United States
2 Nov 06
I would guess the same as a woman. From my personal experience, men like women who make them feel good about themselves AS A MAN, and they want to be appreciated, (as do women). Every guy I've been with, I told each one that they were the BEST I ever had. I would tell them how handsome they were, and how they were the BEST in bed! I really would mean it too. (Although I said it to several,lol) For example, if a guy is kind enough to take me to dinner, I'd rave about the food, eat it all, then thank them for taking me to dinner, and tell them what a great time I had. After all, if he's paying for it, his only thanks is your enjoyment and appreciation. Be nice, but don't act clingy, and whiney and for god's sake don't call him 50 times a day. Have something else to do rather than obsessing over his phone call. (I NEVER had a problem with any of my dates not returning my phone calls after we fooled around, in fact, they would always end up calling me first, and MANY times thereafter) I should write a book about this, so I could save all you young women lots of heartache.
1 person likes this
• Singapore
3 Nov 06
Thanks for sharing! =) Yeah.. you should really consider writing the book and when you do, have to let me know! =)
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
18 Oct 06
Hmm.. want in respect to which area?
• Singapore
18 Oct 06
Well, it's basically an open question.. up to how you wanna interpret it..it can be in terms of career, family, love.. anything you'd like to share! =)
• Singapore
19 Oct 06
Thanks for sharing! Think the fear of commitment is not just a man thing.. some woman have that problem too.. i think this has to do with self-esteem issues.. when you're not very confident of yourself, you generally have this fear of getting into commitments cos you don't know how you can contribute to the relationship and am afraid of hurting the other party as well as yourself. The other thing about commitment is that some people see it like a bondage.. that's why they're so fearful about it... =)
• Singapore
18 Oct 06
I think maybe some fear commitment. I havent really found the answer to it yet. They generally wanna stabalise their career first. Priorities of men and women can be a little different. Men wanna have a good career to provide for a home. The lady may feel what is the point of all the money when he isnt home once a week? I dont mind earning a little lesser, trading money for more freedom and time to spend with my close ones. I cannot speak for everyone though.
@jrk0624 (406)
• United States
11 Oct 06
most men only want a good time if you know what i mean!!
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
11 Oct 06
What's wrong with wanting a good time? I mean you'd hardly expect us to want a rotten time, would you?
1 person likes this
• United States
2 Nov 06
I'd agree with that, because thats what having a good time basically is =P
@missybal (4490)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I don't know and I don't want to find out.
• Singapore
2 Nov 06
Haha... maybe knowing it isin't such a bad thing? Hee
@mahanta (105)
• India
11 Nov 06
Feminine women as against feminists
@mahanta (105)
• India
11 Nov 06
Feminine women as against feminists
@dlufel (423)
• Australia
2 Nov 06
the s word, freedom, being respected, being the most powerful in their environment
@finidinwa (497)
• United States
3 Nov 06
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@kutchi (12320)
• Pakistan
2 Nov 06
Mostly men wants only one thing you all know what i mean =)
@grump0ne (979)
• United States
2 Nov 06
speaking as a man what I want is someone who is caring, loving, honest, someone to share the ups and downs of life with. someone who will listen to my problems, concerns, and at times stupidity, someone to lift me up when down, someone to laugh with me, and cry with me. gives me space when needed. Dont hold me back from doing things I like to do. supports me in what I do. and than lastly there are other things I cant mention here, And in return I give her all of these things back. And this I have found in my wife of 18 yrs.
• United States
2 Nov 06
RESPECT and affirmation of their masculinity in a modern society that's made every attempt to emasculate the contemporary man.
@denax1 (708)
• United States
2 Nov 06
Now this is a very tough question. I think it depends on the man. I would say that most men would like to be loved and accepted for who they are.
@scorpius (1792)
• India
2 Nov 06
just a good time ,enough to blow your mind away,you know like sharon stone in basic instinct!!
@Brandi06 (2227)
• United States
2 Nov 06
you know what most men want
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 06
man want a love.
• United States
2 Nov 06
One thing and one thing only...someone to wait on him hand and foot!
• United States
2 Nov 06
I rhink men want a lot of differant things..there are a lot of differant men out there so it depends what man. you are refering to. my man is kind sweet and the most respectable amn i know. some men only want u know one thing and some men want a good future.
• Canada
2 Nov 06
Their own way.
@Brandi06 (2227)
• United States
2 Nov 06
you know what they want