Is a little pain a big pleasure?

Perhaps this is something that you have never been even very mildly subjected to. In a spirit of fun it is a wonderful escape from the mundane. lol Few uninitiates volunteer readily, yet surprising how many come back for more lol Perhaps it's like the bungeee jump mentality.

Well one ex did try to administer a few light slaps which didn't do anything for me I'm afraid. I just found it mildy irritating - not so much that I protested but if it had gone on for any length of time I probably would have told him to cut it out. No-one's ever asked me to spank them but then at 5' tall I'm too short to be a credible dominatrix!