swingers....
By tecklebuggg
@tecklebuggg (209)
United States
February 17, 2007 12:05am CST
Is it not kind of contradicting to file for a divorce when you find out your mate is "cheating". I mean... is that not what swinging is really all about? I know someone who introduced her husband to swinging and then promptly divorced him when he had an affair! I think she got what she deserved..... don't start something you don't want to live with.
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
11 May 08
Swinging IS NOT about cheating...just because you have a swingers lifestyle does NOT give a person the ok to sleep with whomever behind their partners back..it doesnt work like that
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
11 May 08
LOL I didnt realized I'd already answered this thread...oops.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
17 Feb 07
no that is NOT what swingin is about...not at all...when you get into that lifestyle there are rules to follow, swinging doenst mean you can just go out and screw around with whomever, whenever behind your partners back..it doesnt work like that at all..
@ukVicki (1)
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17 Jul 07
Hi, swinging is not the same as an affair or cheating. Swinging is for couples to share new experiences with thier partner involving other people. Everyone is totally honest and upfront about feelings, attractions, thoughts and opinions and if everyone is not comfortable or happy with the situation nothing happens. I am talking from experience as I am a swinger and niether myself or my husband have ever cheated or had an affair with anyone!
@blademaiden (734)
• Romania
10 May 08
Personally I wouldn't do it, but I can see why some people would. It would give them the excitement of an affair without any of the negatives, they wouldn't have the problem of one of them cheating, all they would have to do is arrange a "get together". For some people I can see this being a great way to keep their relationsip together.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jun 08
The wife is as stupid as the swinging husband. her for
being caught up in swinging in the first place and him
for swinging. They both deserve whatever they got.
@lynninky (491)
• United States
17 Feb 07
i agree she opened the door for him to explore other women and she got what she deserved.i guess she was thinking they would both be there as a couple with the other swingers.as far as i have been told swingers are couples not hiding affair type. honestly i think if she introduced him to that life style that she was not really happy with him sexualy. so may be she wanted to end the marriage but needed a reason. maybe by introducing him the the swinger life style she was hoping he would get mad an divorce her but it did not work.did she help get him interested in this one person ? it maybe a setup...she may have planed it with the other person so she could catch him in the act.as far as the saying don't start something you don't want to live with" it would be great if people would not get married if they knew they was in love with someone else buy yet so many people do...
