Do you think everything get easy with time?

calender - calender and event
United States
February 17, 2007 11:44am CST
We all go through some painful incidents in life. Life is always ful of ups an downs. Sometime we get hurt from someone very near to our heart or may be from someone who is a complwtw stranger to you. When we face something pain ful it hurts very much at that time. But I think time make that easy. I mean when time pass by you get easy with some very painful thing also. Do you think time is a great cure for every pain?
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• Canada
17 Feb 07
I believe it does and it doesn't . As time goes by what once bothered you will not bother you as much as it did in the months or years prior to it happening but once you get back on your feet again you can be sure something else will be there to pull you down again . For all the times we are happy with good moments in our life we can be sure that we will always run into something bad also that will take awhile to feel good about again .
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• United States
18 Feb 07
This is true, there will be something always to hurt you.
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• United States
18 Feb 07
I think that with some things time does cure it or ease it, sure. But with some things it's still just as painful the sixth time as the first. Like watching an ill parent suffer and wondering if this time it really is it. You tell yourself that you're used to it and everything will be okay. You convince yourself that you know someday they will die of this and you've accepted that. But you haven't it. Not completely. When you're faced with that moment it's just the same as being a scared little kid standing around crying because you're not sure what's going to happen. Some things go away, some things get easier, but others hit you in the heart over and over again.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
18 Feb 07
honestly? no time isnt a great cure for pain...all time does is teaches you how to learn to live with it...When it comes to really painful things the only "cure" is going through the process of dealing with it/healing from it which isnt easy by any means but IMO that is really the only cure....time just teaches you to candycoat it IMO
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@sunshinecup (7871)
18 Feb 07
Not a cure, but it sure helps you deal with the pain a bit better. It takes the edge off and you learn to cope with it.
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• India
18 Feb 07
time passes and we have new things to deal with...its not that we get over it but the other things we have in are mind keep us away from the sad thoughts...from my personal experience these sad things keep coming back to you in your lonely times...as time passes it becomes less painfull...but it still remains one of your sad moments whenever you look back at it
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• Nigeria
18 Feb 07
yeah,sweetlady,time is everything,even GOD himself created the world with TIME.look,i know somebody might have hurt your feeling or maybe,something terrible might have happened to you,either way,but,sometime peoples come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there,they serve some sort of purpose,teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you are to become,alway know that "everything happens for a reason"without this small test,life would be like a smooth paved straight,flat road to nowhere.so with TIME things will get easy or better.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
18 Feb 07
Yes, life will teach everybody it's hardest lessons and everybody has to accept those lessons and try to live with it as there is no other go.Whhatever happens in life, we need to developpatience and do our things promptly and life will teach us to cope with everything that comes to us and we should work harda nd believe inourselves..that's all we can do......
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
17 Feb 07
Whilst I am a high functioning individual. I must say that I am scarred for life since my housefire. The lack of community caring and the inability to help ourselves for the past 3 summers. I will carry this with me to the end of my days. In fact since that is the case, if I am able I will start a help for othes the end up similar to what we went through. As I have told God that yes I may end up better even that before since that is his pattern, I will never forget what I had to go through and that will affect how I am for the rest of my days. Some things can be gotten over, others you carry with you and become a part of who you are. Time does change it but it does not go away.
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• United States
18 Feb 07
I am sorry that that happen to you. You are right some thing never goes away.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
18 Feb 07
For me time has not cured the pain. As long as the memory has remained so has the pain. I still feel hurt at things that have been done to me. With time, though, I have learned to stay away from people who have hurt me and to try to stay away from bad people. I do try not to hurt others.
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
18 Feb 07
The mind has a way of dulling pain over time until we accept and move on. That can take a week or years depending on willing the person is to move on.
@rosie_123 (6113)
17 Feb 07
Well, there is an old expression, that time is a great healer, and I believe that it is true. Of course you never forget the pain of losing a loved one, - that person will always be with you in your heart, and there will be times when you shed tears for them, or for something/someone else that upset you. But life does go on, and people have to carry on, or just give up, and giving up is not an option for most people because they have family, and they have to stay strong for them. So after a while, the pain eases enough to carry on with your daily life.
@taramoon (740)
• Spain
17 Feb 07
Lovely response Rosie i agree with you totally on that
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• India
18 Feb 07
Yes i do think that everything get easy with time because practise makes a man perfect and ractise comes when you spend time.One of the best things that god gave to humanbeings i think is to forget because when something really hurts us in the beginning becomes very easy as the time passes.So time helps us to get easy i think.
• India
18 Feb 07
You are right. Everything gets easy with time. Thats because a person's life is a continuous learning phase. We never stop learning from our past. No one ever becomes perfect. And when we keep learning, we keep improving. And when we keep improving ourselves, some things do get easy.
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@millu4u (21)
• India
18 Feb 07
Time is a great pain reliever.Life is full of happiness and sorrows.Happiness,that's the word I like the most,I basically confront with sorrows.But I dont get worried or panicked. Because these sorrows later on become my sweet memories and a smile on my face.This is the magic of time.Even though there are certain incidents which cannot be coped up with time but as time progresses the pain gets relieved which allows to go ahead in our life.I have experienced the magic of time and will experience in future.It's not that I will get painful news or so but as life is full of ups and downs as u have said there will be some incident where I have to stand strong.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 07
Personally I don't think some things like grief and broken hearts get any easier, I think you learn to live with it, and you accept that this is part of life. Life is cruel, life can be a living hell but with experience and support you learn to get up, brush yourself down and start all over again. It depends if you have a pessimistic or optimistic approach on life, is life half empty or half full? You fall of your bike, you get back on. But I think you can endeavour to do things differently the next time, like not wearing your heart on your sleeve and learning by your mistakes.
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
18 Feb 07
emotional pain at least but some of it takes longer then others like a ex. husband or losing a family member can take a good while
@lifeiseasy (2292)
• United States
18 Feb 07
In my experience things still hurt and they don't get any better... you just learn how to handle or deal with them so you can survive ... with age comes wisdom as the old saying goes and you use that to cope with life's ups and downs ... I know you don't have kids now but it is one of the most painful things to go through ...but the funny thing is in a few months you forget all about that ...having that little bundle of joy helps I think...but yes time helps to heal ...you might not ever forget but you won't be so sad about it...
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• India
18 Feb 07
Yes, I strongly believe that, "Time is the best medicine to cure any of your problems in the life". Time makes all the things go smooth and easy. As time passes, you start getting bussy with other things and gradually forgets the past. So, yes time is the best thing to forget any bad experiences. If you get hurt by anyone, if you had failure in anything, it always good to give time to yourself, it helps you to understand where you went wrong and this way you will learn new things too. So, I think, there are lot of things happen in any person's life, which he/she can't understand why it happens, but he/she should just keep moving and time will makes everything fine.
• India
18 Feb 07
Every night is followed by a day.In a similar way,every painful incident will come to an end with time.This is what i believe.More than just believing that time makes it all,it is up to the person to forget all bad remarks and painful incidents and just remember all good remarks and good incidents
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• India
18 Feb 07
Well life is full of ups and downs. As time passes by we face some good and bad incidents. But like every night there is a day, every painful incident has some thing good after it.Ofcourse many people near to us and some times strangers hurt us but we have to keep faith in god who has created the future for us which is unknown to us.So we should pray god and keep faith in him and take bllessings of our parents to live a happy life.