what do you think about myloters who say........

@lisa101 (1363)
United States
February 23, 2007 7:47pm CST
this discussion is for only memebers who have this or do this or this age....blah blah blah..... I say bite me!! I didnt want to give you a response anyways. I find it rude and i think when you open a discussion we should all be welcome to reply.
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@charms88 (7543)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
The first thing I did upon booting up my computer is to check the discussions posted by my friends. Sometimes, I need to rack my brain just to be able to give sensible answers. Oftentimes,I will keep browsing until a discussion that caught my attention. With so many discussions here, Its making me dizzy trying to look for the one I like. Everyone have the right to respond to any discussions here be it related or not to you. Happy posting...
@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
I know that we have the right to respond to any discussion but dont you find this rude when they are asking you not to respond to a certain subject unless you meet their criterias
@aretha (2539)
• United States
24 Feb 07
yes i have seen a few of these but i just keep going and find something else.
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
yes me too. I may have a good opinion on it but its their lose the way i see it.
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@mrsbrian (1951)
• United States
24 Feb 07
i agree with you , i am new here and i was understanding that the topics were open to all myloters, and i like you will just take my two cents elsewhere and the positive that i may have given to them.
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Yep its totally their lose of they want to be that way.
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@shambuca (2560)
• United States
24 Feb 07
I think maybe they are doing that to save u time in reading - like if it were a high school or college question- i probably wouldn't want to answer it or relate to it because i'm older. I know i have done it in one of my questions - i think it was for anyone over 40- I didn't mean it to be rude or to exclude anyone i just felt if it may be something a younger person may not be interested in so why not let them know up front, I know i would prefer it. By the way bite me is one of my favorite sayings too.
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
HAHAHA i wasn't directing my discussion towards you hun. It was just everyone in general. In my opinion i say just let us find out for ourselves, who knows we may have an input that couls earn you money. But if you was doing it out of respect to save us time , then i am not angry. You are a good friend thanks for the reply. If you dont like what i said then BITE ME hahahaha lol
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@shambuca (2560)
• United States
26 Feb 07
LOL.. i get ya!
@shambuca (2560)
• United States
5 Mar 07
thank you for the BR!
@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
yeah. i think mylot is an open form of communication and should be accomodating to all. however, what if the question is specifically for a type of people -- say ... a gender sensitive question. Maybe just maybe, they are just trying to be protective or whatever ...
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Well i just would not put it in the title. im sure when a body got to reading it they would realize they had no opinion and would just go on instead of being insulted from the beginning and told not to reply.
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• Canada
24 Feb 07
I think it's pretty much a defeat of purpose to tell anyone *not* to respond to your discussions LOL. After all, don't we all wants lots of reponses? I just leave a discussion where someone has told me who can or can't respond. Their loss.
@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Yep their loss we can go make our penny somewhere else but they are losing their pennies.
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@KrisNY (7592)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I say if I want to answer I'm going to anyways-- So go ahead and put your dumb little-- this is for 50 year olds.. LOL I'm still going to answer- Now I try to include everyone- I recently asked how old were your kids-- or you if you have none when they stopped believing in Santa Claus.. So it's best to include everyone! I agree--- Bite me! lol Just answer anyways and tell them you dont fit their demographic. LOL
@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Yes i think i answered that discussion but i dont think you excluded anyone. Its great to find a way to include evryone. Sometimes we may come up with things that not everyone could answer but we should not write the title of discussion saying do not answer if blah, blah, blah. you know what i mean. Thanks
• United States
27 Feb 07
A Widdle Devil - A Cute Widdle Devil out to have some mischievous fun
Well - I haven't seen too many of those around, but the few i did see, I ignored them pretty much. Anyway, thanks to those who replied with some mischievous ideas. Ain't I a widdle devil.
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I have seen a few today and some by my own friends. I dont know what to do about it anymore hahaha. Yes you are a widdle devil.
@rusty2rusty (6769)
• Defiance, Ohio
25 Feb 07
I answer those discussions anyways. Just because I may not fall in to the catorgory they are asking about. It doesn't mean I don't have the experience or have some kind of advice to give. I figure it is their lose. If I skip over their posts.
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Yes alot of you guys are saying that you answer anyways. Im glad you all can get pass the anger and respond as for me i just go on to another discussion that welcomes my opinion.
25 Feb 07
This is one of the only things which honestly annoyed me. There's quite a few discussion aimed for "mothers" none for both mums and dads. I normally crash this anyway, as i'm proud to be a father who love and wants to be involved with my sons growth. It honestly bugs me because it's as if most father don't care, most aren't counted in things which make them not get involved. Play group. (i go with my wife and son) the room was full of women who looked down there noses at me and i hate to be nasty but i can see why their parents don't go. Kudos ~Joey P.s other examples also annoy me, but i put up with it and crash those i choose to. =)
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Im glad to hear it joey, you have every right and if you feel you can contribute to the discussion then i say go for it. However my temper want allow me to respond, i feel better just letting them lose my penny hahaha.
• United States
25 Feb 07
I totally agree with you. We should all be able to respond to whatever discussion we want to.
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Yes we can respond if we want. They cant stop us. I think that its rude and causes them to lose some earnings.
@mic123 (204)
• India
24 Feb 07
This is a nice place to voice out your opnion and your discussions but one should also follow the norms ,rules and regulations of the site.
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@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
i agree
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
I think they have the right to do it so, especially if they know that only their kind are the ones who can give/share their own experiences or advice. Just like others here who are mothers, to which most of them I cannot respond to because I have limited knowledge on what they are discussiong about. Maybe just ignore them and skip it, I'm sure there are lot more discussions that we can give our best opinions to..
@lisa101 (1363)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Yeah we cant stop them from doing it no more than they can stop us from replying to it.