HELP PLease..I Need An Advice..

Egypt
March 3, 2007 5:23pm CST
im seeking an advice for one of my best friends.my friend is in love with a guy who study in her class.but that guy loves somebody else.but my friend loves him more than her life,now the problem is now she is feeling so depressed that she dont want to talk with anybody and want to be alone Iam seeking your advice what need to be done? Is there any solution possible?
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@SageMother (2277)
• United States
3 Mar 07
I think time is the only remedy in these situations. I am not sure I understand your use of the term "love" but I assume this is desire based on this fellow's appearance but not his substance. I am sure that your friend's feeling swill wear away with time. She will get opast her depression as she moves through the stages to acceptance and find other things to occupy her.
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@beaniegdi (1964)
3 Mar 07
she needs to be able to talk to someone as young people can become very depressed. She thinks she loves this guy but it is not love at all but she may have other troubles in her life and that has caused her to become obsessed with an unobtainable guy. is there a student counsellor that she can talk to? it is hard for young people as they have very strong feelings but not the maturity and experience to deal with them. i thnk she is lucky to have a friend like you who is concerned for her, try to keep in contact with her and see if you can't get her to see the student counsellor.
@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Perhaps your friend is just infatuated by this guy. Hopefully this guy don't lead your bestfriend to believe that he also likes her. Try to get your friend to do something new like attend yoga class or bring her to the salon and have an image makeover. A little pampering wouldn't hurt. Seriously though you cannot convince her if she strongly feels for this guy.Let her come to her own senses. Let her wallow in her emotions for a while.She will realize soon enough that this guy is not worth her while. Goodluck. And do pray for her. It helps alot ;)