How to forget Ex-Boyfriend???

Indonesia
March 7, 2007 12:33am CST
I just broke-up month ago with my boyfriend. i met him far outside island when am on goverment duty. We were very close and i feel so comfortable with him. But after all i found him went a flirt with somebody else. Like other woman, i angry with him, He said : sorry..sorry..forgive me.. And I forgive him. It's something i think it's weird that He just left me with no reason no longer after?! I had confuse with this! What am doing to forget him is go back to my home, i think if i far from him i could forget him, and am trying to find the bad things of him :-). Sometimes i still remember and feel sad, so I need your opinions! HOW YOU FORGET YOUR EX??
14 responses
• United States
7 Mar 07
the best way to forget an ex boyfriend is to get a new boyfriend.
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
u remind me one of my crazy friend's advice..she once told me "if GUY is your problem, it is GUY too the answer!" HAHAHAH!! Got the point anyway! ;)
@snyker (134)
• Romania
22 Aug 07
from what you said...you ex-boyfriend..doesn't deserve a second chance..try to find someone else..it is the best
@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
forgetting an x is never easy...it took many months or year for you to recover especially if your deeply inlove.Its really along process and inly time can and it also depends how you tried to forget him.To forget him just keep your self busy and focus on the present.Open your heart to some more deserving....another thing is think those negative and sad things happened to you when your still with him rather than thinking those happy memories your together.
@sherville (160)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOUR MAN? FIND OTHER MAN TO SOLVE IT! -- This made me realized that my one crazy friend has the point of having her CRAZY advice hahahah! it doesn't mean to find a new boyfriend ASAP.. it simply just tell me before to have a date, mingle and talk to other people instead of having your room locked and juz cried all your pain on your bed co'z believe me! it would take you for loooong to recover! of course pain is still there while your having some, little fun but it would help you heal fast... go on with your friends to the bar, take some drink and go on at the dance floor and SHOOOOUT your pain! people there would understand...co'z your drunk! (HEK! HEK!) Girl, shaw him how unworthy he is to be your man! meet somebody to have your attention... you'll see then how lucky you are not to have him ;)
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
Enjoy with friends, with officemates, and keep yourself busy. so you can forget him but not totally it's just another way.
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
It's hard to forget your ex right away. As the saying goes, time heals all wounds...and in time you will learn to forgive and forget. So just take your time...because the more you will hurry to forget him, the more harder it gets. Make yourself busy and spend time with your family and friends. It really helps. Take care.
21 Mar 07
just spend your time with your work...visit your parent house or go for holidays...who know you find someone that arebetter than him...:)
@rain07 (132)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
I also had a bad experience with my ex-boyfriend and one thing that really helped me a lot was taking some time off and enjoy my life with my family and friends. I started going out with my friends and we hang out and just have some fun. In that way, I didn't have the time to think about my ex-boyfriend. Instead, the attention focuses on me and how to make myself happy even without being in a relationship. I think that was how my heart got healed. I put my efforts in making my life worth living and leaving the pain of past on my back and starting to move on. I started to love myself again and it reflected in me. My family and friends saw the peace in my heart with how I take care of myself and how I smile. So don't feel sad. This is just a chapter in your life that is going to end. You'll start a new chapter and enjoy and rest of your life. Someday, you'll find a person who will truly love you and who will thank the person who broke your heart for letting you go.
@lpipe0240 (1161)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Just by doing things to take your mind of him. Find and activity or something that you enjoy a lot that will hlep you keep you mind of him. But its going to take time as well. The more time passes the less you will feel hurt.
@dixtra (27)
• Indonesia
7 Mar 07
I understand your feeling. It is not easy to forget a relationship with man. Especially if you had put the man inside your heart. But the simple way to forget him is to remember the BAD THING that he's done to you. First ; he's flirt other woman in front of you, second ; he left you without nothing ;-)
@tiaramas (207)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 07
Sometimes it is hard to let go of someone. You need to think about if you really love him or not. A lot of the time people think that they want to be with someone just because they don't have them anymore. If he said a lot of mean stuff to you just try to think about that a lot to help you get over him. and.. This mentality in post-breakup is going to tear you apart. You must have justified the break-up so now you must face the fact that the world is ruthless and it can take its toll on those that are strong enough to survive. If you have feelings for someone then follow them and if you want to get over him, give him some room and back off. Approaching the one you love intimately will only harm you.
• China
14 Mar 07
it's really unforgivable of what he did , I suggest you think more of the hurt he brought you . and he is not the one you worth loving so much . the man who worth your love wonot make you cry because of him . this is the what I suggest .
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
If you get yourself used to all the pain that you go through everytime you think of your ex, then before you know it you're already numb of the feelings that you once felt about him. You wouldn't be sad, mad, or anything. You'll just cherish your memories together. Yeah you could also forget him by being far away from him and enjoy yourself without him around.
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
Wow, that's really tough.. He said he's sorry then he left you?! Girl, there are things in life that makes you feel happy and relief, why not try doing that? Instead of burdening yourself thinking about it and giving you much more pain. Keep yourself busy, going back to a place is one thing, go for a vacation, be with your gal pals.. They're the one who could understand you the most.