can the bad person you were before make change

March 9, 2007 5:56pm CST
the life you live before that people dont like can it make you to turn to good man if you know that is not good?
2 responses
@sunita64 (6473)
• India
10 Mar 07
Realisation of ones faults often result in the change in a person. You can correct and error if you realise that there is an error. All those who realises the truth transform from bad to good. But those who do not realise that what they are doing is bad keep on doing bad.Worse are those who realise what is bad still keep doing it. But somehow a bad person can definately become good once he decides to do so.
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
hi onyevikky! all change comes from within. i think you can only be determined to change negative things about yourself if you become convinced that it is not a good thing and you become motivated to change it. other people's opinion may affect your decision to change yourself, but ultimately you have to make that decision for yourself. you need to have a set of things which you call good and bad in order for you to make a decision on which things to retain and which things to change. in the past, i have had to deal with so many things i didn't like about myself. it wasn't easy changing them because i was so used to doing them. after all, it was a habit and a way of living for me. but there's hope in the fact that for as long as you are alive, you can still make that change for yourself. whatever it is you are trying to change, i hope you won't do it just because other people don't like it. i hope you decide to change it because you are fully convinced that it is a bad thing even if other people wouldn't say so.