How do you initiate Break-Up?

@gloria777 (1678)
India
March 10, 2007 4:08am CST
You are together for 5 years and is tired of his same thing bad reputation and repetitive mistakes.. he/she is willing and is changing most is improving... both of you are so in love with each other but.. the big indifference and all the misunderstanding is wasting the pieces of the puzzle... you talk it over but ended up same, in love and still together... you wanna have back yourself and life...what will u do...
3 responses
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
Frequent petty quarrels? Why don't you talk things out. Communication is still the best factor in a harmonious relationship. Tell him/her what you feel about your situation and that you want it to change for the better. If there is love, the two of you would be willing to compromise and meet half way in order to stay together. Well, is break-up is inevitable then don't hold on to a relationship which doesnt make you happy anymore. When it happened to me some years ago, I subtly said to my then boyfriend that i wanted some space to think and i said we cool-off for awhile. Thats what i did and after 3 days i said, our relationship is not working anymore.
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
I know I am a victim to this problem. My husband and I before while we were still dating made some stupid things together. we fight always and we say to end our relationship but it never happened that we break up. We promise to change our bad deeds sometimes we succeeded and sometimes it never happen. But we love each other that much. And one day I found our that I am pregnant and that is why we got married. We still have our fights these days because of our attitudes and misunderstanding but we keep on fighting and changing for the better. I believe that there is no perfect person and a perfect relationship and we commit mistakes always. But I am open to changes and even if he, my husband sometimes is too hard to change I still believe that he will for there is nothing impossible, for change is constant.
• Singapore
10 Mar 07
You have to decide how much you want your partner. If you love him/her more than he/she irritates you, then stay.. you will never get back yourself. :/ If the reverse is true, put an amicable end to the relationship and start moving down your own road again.