I am so tired of the same old routine (need advice)

@Indiffer (288)
Norway
March 14, 2007 1:50am CST
I am finding myself extremely bored these days. Every day is the same. Even weekends brings nothing to cheer me up abit. I am tired, going to bed at 9 pm, almost right after the children. I spend my ME time on the computer, working to bring in more money.I dont know if i can take more of the hundreds of earn extra money here, get thousands in a month, on and on. I want to quit actually. I have of course My Lot and a few others i try to do daily. How do you cope with the old routine? How do you break out of this "i dont care anymore" feeling? I am not sad, just tired of everything. How do you find space to get your spirits up?
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6 responses
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
Have a day for yourself. Spend the day pampering yourself, doing the things you used to do before you had kids. Send them to your parent's. Spend time with your friends. Go out.
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@Indiffer (288)
• Norway
14 Mar 07
Thank you for your comment. Sadly there is nowhere to send my children. Nowhere i can trust. Husbands mother is elderly, and both my parents and his father is in another city too far away. But i appreciate the thought of having a day just for me. That would be so nice.
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
14 Mar 07
Well as far as I am concerned I never feel bored as I have 101 interesting things to take part in. Develop lots of hobbies and you will never be bored. I love reading and that is one hobby suffiecient to kill boredom.
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@Indiffer (288)
• Norway
14 Mar 07
Thank you. That is an idea. It is just that i dont feel like doing anything i just want to go to bed and sleep away.
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@mssawyer (72)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
you have to find some kind of an inspiration to help you have more energy in life. how about your kids? don't they inspire you to do something everyday so they could have a brighter future? maybe ask yourself what it is that you really want to do in your life? maybe paint? cook? then draw inspiration from there =) i hope this helps!
@toonatoons (3740)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
what you need is a break. go out in the sun, enjoy yourself, do some window shopping. go on a vacation. stress is written all over your face, and the only way to beat that is to take a break --- temporarily, of course.
@Indiffer (288)
• Norway
14 Mar 07
A permanent break, right now that sounds soothing. Just kidding. I understand what you mean, and thank you. These are ideas i can use.
@lucy67 (819)
• China
14 Mar 07
sometimes i have the same feeling as you do. try to get rid of such negative feeling for it's not good for your health and may have bad influence on your kids. go out to have a chat with friends, watch TV or cook a good meal for your family...anything you like as long as it can change your routine.
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@Indiffer (288)
• Norway
14 Mar 07
Thank you. No it is not good for anyone doing like this. I think im going to phone my sister today. It has been too long. Thank you for the ideas.
@flagella08 (5069)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
i usually feel that way to and im always fighting for it.now, i get myself involve in some business matters offline so i can move my butt out of the house.i worked online too like in mylot. but now 60% of my time is in offline business where i've less money to invest. in this kind of business, time is really one of the most important elements and of course, GLA which means good learning attitude. if you're interested, i'm just an email away. this is effective for me. it lightens up my spirits everytime i got paid.goodluck pal.
@Indiffer (288)
• Norway
11 Apr 07
This sounded interesting. I also find that getting out of the house helps on your mood. I would love to know more, as long as it applies to scandinavia, or worldwide. Ill mail you.