more than friends

@kring_m (107)
Philippines
March 14, 2007 2:24am CST
how can one ever continue being friends with somebody when everytime you look at that person, all you can think of is how much you want to be more than friends?
4 responses
@reykja (121)
14 Mar 07
Well, I guess it is not possible to continue like that because that person would just end up dreaming on and on and suffers in real life. That person would probably end up giving some hints to the friend that he/she likes or even confess her/his feelings, which could either ruin the friendship or progress the friendship into something else.
@kring_m (107)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
that's very true.. you will also feel embarrassed once you're rejected..
@suryapal (36)
• India
14 Mar 07
I don't want to be more than a friend because if you want to be a boy friend than your limits of thinking is just around your love as a boyfriend but if you are a true friend than you have to be openminded and have to play a role of parents ,brother,boyfriend and as a safeguard fo heis\her feeling. so nothing is more or greater than a friends so want to be a friend only.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
That is a very difficult situation where you would choose to save your friendship or try expressing your feelings with him. The decision is always yours to take. There are risks in both situations but then you have to stick to your decision no matter what. If you want to save your friendship the risk of losing him to another person is great although your friendship was saved but you weren't able to express what your true feelings are and there might be a chance of knowing whether the feelings was mutual in the end. If you choose to express it you might end up losing your friendship with that person but on the other there is a slight chance that as I have said that the feelings might be mutual and its just the timing that wasn't right. Choosing which path to take is all yours and both would end either positive or negative so weigh things carefully and you might hit the right note in there.
• Romania
14 Mar 07
well...you can't..you have 2 choices...you can tell that person how you feel about him/her..or you could stop bein friends...and not see him/her anymore...it's really painful to be friend with someone you love...to hear them speak about how much they love their girl/boyfriends..when you just wanna kiss him/her...and wanna be with him/her..