if your wife betray you ,what would you do?

@lovesu (143)
China
March 16, 2007 4:19am CST
if your wife betray you ,but you still love her so much,what will you do? forgive her and pretend nothing happen. or choose divorce?
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5 responses
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
17 Mar 07
Love makes you do strange things which you do not do in normal circumstances. Well if you love your wife then naturally it is good to forgive her. As forgive and forget is the policy which makes married life longer. But do check one thing why she cheated upon you , are you not giving her something that she resorted to cheating.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
16 Mar 07
As a girl , I think if I know that my husband betray me, firstly, I want to know why, but finally, I think I cannot stand it that he betray me. I think I will choose divorce. It's a big thing for me.
@babynanan (133)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
This is so hard to answer coz no matter how ready you are and you know what to do, when the time comes that this would happen you don't know what to do and you will be left shattered. But as of today, I think i would talk to my partner without blaming, open communication. I would ask my partner what happened and why this is happening. It's so hard to forgive and to trust again but then divorce should not always be the solution. If it can still be work out together, y not try again. Maybe you yourself lacks something in the relationship. As they say, it takes two to tango. So, just adjust to one another and understand. If it doesn't work no matter how you try, maybe it's better of separated. :)
• India
16 Mar 07
It is a very tough to answer. Definetly. If this happen to me then i'd would first the explanation to her then i would like to get the real reason behind that. And if i think that she has the real reason to do that. It is always better to know her mentality before making any reason. Probably i'll forgive her.
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
16 Mar 07
If my wife betrays me what would I do . To be true I will first think about why this happened then have a fight with her .Then will ask her to reunite and take whatever happened as past and forget all happened as I love her . For my sake I will tell her if this thing happens again she can pack her bags and goto person she loves. No divorce because this is last thing I'm scared of i.e. loosing her.