Are you happy with your LIFE??? do u REGRET things????

@karvin87 (1034)
India
March 20, 2007 5:57am CST
personally m a happy go lucky guy, with no regretions as of now...but sometimes i do get unluck and unhappy about it! i know life isnt alwasy the way we plan or we want and things usually dont turn up the way we wnt. its a complecated small life that some times get too complecated!!! though i do not hold any grugdes or have regretion about things and events in my life...i often see people tensed and worried to things they cant change\ i feel life is about moving ahead..and not stoppin in between...wat aboutya?? R u happy the ways things shape up in your life? do u regret ur past events...how do you grade your life out of 10. For me its a 8(dont want to be overconfident here for sure...1!!!!!!)
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• Pakistan
20 Mar 07
hmm Life is to be happy with, I'm Happy wth life from the bird-eye's view but sometimes... when very minutely things are taken into consideration, life does brings in Loads of unhappiness and sometimes cries:(... Still Life is something to be happy about as it's seriously one of the great blessings of Almighty! do regret the Past, but i guess life is the name to Live in present and to make the future better... So Life is Good! I rate My life at 8!
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@kyran_12 (645)
• India
21 Mar 07
yes i am pretty happy with kind of life i am enjoying right now, having fun all the time , no girlfriend stuff no tensions a free bird life....... sometimes money does matters but i have my own ways to deal with it as around 25 people are working for putting cash in my accounts it no care business for me of now , so its good free life, and which is boring sometime so i do crazy stuff like timepass on internet here there or taking drinks a lot and yes the mylot , want some pure people and some few good friends here thats all, ............cheers
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
i like tht atiitude dude, its some what like me..happy go lucky! no tension , just chillin n njoying...
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
21 Mar 07
Life - Life is like .................
I regret the day I started smoking. I regret the day I misbehaved with my dad. I regret the day I left my education in between. I regret the day ............. many more but the moral behind all this liners are yes, Mr. samrat has made too many mistakes in life to . I will give 4.5 out of 10 to life. PICTURE BELOW SUMS UP THE MY RESPONSE .
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@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
hey thts a good one samrat. honestly even i have done mistakes in life... every one does...its not a mistake to commit a mistake...but yeah not understnading y it happened is a mistake for sure... live life as it comes dude, its a long happy life when u live without regrets ...
• United States
20 Mar 07
I am reasonably happy with my life. I have no reason really to be unhappy about it. Sure there are times when I am feeling overly stressed about things, but eventually everything works out in the end, if not well at least I tried all I could to make it work out. I don't hold regret for anything that has happened in my past. There is nothing that I can do to change whatever has happened back then, and it would be a waste of my time to even try, when I have so much more to get accomplished in my future. If I had to place a rating on my life, I would give it a confident nine. Because my life isn't perfect so I can't give it a ten, but it sure is close to perfect in my opinion.
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
hey blue rose, m glad u dont hold regrets..personally i too feel regreting in life is the worst thing..its like punishing ur self! and walking ahead is wat life means...keep it up dear...this kinda attitude goes a looong way...
@sarajw (85)
20 Mar 07
I'm pretty happy with life now, but i do regret spending 8 years of my life in a violent and abusive relationship. It took a lot of courage to end it, and at the time i had to keep going to court for restraining orders and other stuff what he did, and i couldn't see an end to it. It's been 4 years since that and while i can't change what happened, i do sometimes feel sad that i wasted so much of my life. At one point i was very depressed, but i soon realised that i have 2 beautiful children, my health and consider myself much luckier than some. So far i would grade my life 6/10, but i think that will probably be a 9/10 in years to come.
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• China
21 Mar 07
It is go glad to see you finally walked out this violent and abusive relationship. Yes, children are the most beatiful thing in the world. Looking their smiles and looking forward. Life is becoming better and better.
@wolfie34 (26881)
• United Kingdom
20 Mar 07
I do tend to have a lot of regrets in life, I know you can't go back and at the time the decision you make was the best possible one, and if only in hindsight we could go back and reverse those decisions, but we can't live or change the past, just use those experiences to help us deal with the future better and not to make the same mistakes and hopefully learn by them. I am not happy with my life at the moment and try to keep an open mind and try to have things to look forward to to keep me going. Life is like a rollercoaster I'm on the downers at the moment and hopefully sometime soon I will go up!
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@fubinbin (52)
• China
21 Mar 07
There are many things that i regret.So i grade my life a 6. I regret that i did not study hard when i was in school and told lies to my father.
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
hey come out of this regretion trauma.. Live life king size!! after all , life has much better avenues than u might have missed...so keep ur eyes open and live life to enjoy life!!!
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
21 Mar 07
I have a couple of regrets in my life and this is the reason I am living my life now to the fullest and not leaving anything important til tomorrow as I have found out sometimes tomorrow never comes...the old saying that you only regret the things you never do....do it know you may not get a chance tomorrow.
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
thts a nice piece of advice dude...
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
yeah you're right! life is about getting up whenever we stumbled down. I believe in destiny and with every destiny, it always have a happy ending. but along the way things can go wrong. but the bottom line, i don't have regrets.
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
thts it my frnd!! No regrets...after all why waste our futr just regreting the past...its a loong road to walk...,if v stop n regret , v would not reach our goals....very true!
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
we'll am in doubt actually, am not sure on how to evaluate things but i am kinda happy with the life that i have its just that there seems to be a missing link, i dunno am confused. i got a job that supports me and my mom so you can readily say i have almost everything a girl could ask for. but in the deep recesses of my being there's just an empty spot and i have no idea what it is and how to make it go away.
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
hey glaekenskeep, empty spots in life hold the deepest secret! and its how u come out of it! life is not about the moments v breadth...but about the moments that take our breadth away! cheerrrss!
@NDVDNYK1 (53)
• United States
20 Mar 07
I don't know about u but Im the happiest person in this world.
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
hey m glad for you...its hard to find happy people around and when i find one..i treasure it! cheerrrss!!!
@palpalsky (900)
• United States
20 Mar 07
well dont know for sure whether iam happy or not ..howeever i do think when i dont have any expetations from things ..things seems perfect ..and when i hope to get somethinh i dont ..and that turns out some kind of regret for me
@karvin87 (1034)
• India
21 Mar 07
hey, life is always full of expectations and trust me , when you come out of it, life is quite bigger than just expecting..its more enjoying when u would be at the giving end and not the taking end!!!!
@timou87 (1643)
• Singapore
20 Mar 07
i used to have lots of regrets and i think that i still have some, but lately i have realised that life is way too short to regret anything, so i have been trying to take things easier and not regret any decisions i might make in life.
• India
21 Mar 07
I do agree with you when you say that life is way too short to regret anything. Even I've tried to take things easier and not worry too much about things that cannot be changed. So, let's live life and enjoy it to the fullest.
• India
21 Mar 07
Yes, i am happly with my lift for 90%. But sometimes i am unlucky that I have some difference of opinion with my husband. I will forget the regrets happenings in my life and like to be happy.
@bindishah (2063)
• India
21 Mar 07
My life, too is sometimes filled w a lot of confusion. I do regret some things - actually rather than regret i think what if that would not have happened. But theres no point looking at the past. I like to think that i am a happy person too - but sometimes life just deals you situations when you cant help but feel sad. i guess thats life - you cant go thru all of it with just 1 emotion. We need to just accept it the way it is. My rating on my life would change as it progresses. Right now it is about 6 coz i dont think i am where i want to be. There are times when its eveb below and times when its a perfect 10.
@cherinai (65)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
sometimes i regret things that i had'nt done in the past, but sometimes i pause and think that life is not about regrets, its about moving on. you cannot change things happened in the past..regrets are just a waste of time while moving on can do something good on you..
@miryam (6510)
• Italy
21 Mar 07
They are satisfied of my life, happy for living it day after day. It is not easy, a disease has carried to me to living on a wheelchair from 4 years, but they are alive, and I can make still many things. I have a divorce to the shoulders, but a dog that I adore, a new one boyfriend, to which I want much good, I do not complain myself,
• Pakistan
21 Mar 07
no i never regret what i did because life if too short of this all and i will grade my life 9 out of ten even when some one was disturbed you you should think of all the happy moments becasue these are the true moments of life
• United States
21 Mar 07
I am happy with some parts of my life. But other stuff I regret. I regret giving up on book ideas, not taking an internship, joining a GYM, and not buying a car when I won my lawsuite for workmenscomp. Things I dont like include my forever bad left knee, I cant loose weight easily. But I am getting used to my new house, I love my dog, I enjoy writing and reading and I finally got a job. Its not ALL that bad. I am trying to not sit around thinking of regrets instead working on making things better and fixing those I regret.
21 Mar 07
I believe you should not ahve any regrets in life, whats in the past can not be undone so whats the point in worry about it