How far into a relationship do you.....

Good question. I cheated on my old partner a few times , he knew about it, he was usually there at the time. I realise dit was hurtfull at the time but also I didnt want to be with him in that way but I didnt want to hurt him by breaking up with him, mad I know. I would never cheat on my partner now cos I love him too much and I want to be with him. I think once you have dated them a couple of times and plan to date them again thats when you should stop. One wierd thing I just though of is that I often have dreams that I have cheated on him and fell really bad after in my dream. When I wake up, I cant always shake of the feeling of guilt for a while. Im just so glad its always a dream.

I think up until you have that chat you should both realise that there are not yet any strings attached. When I was younger I really liked he idea of avoiding the chat with certain people. In fact, with certain people I had no intention of ever having that chat, and if I got cornered into it that wuld tend to be the end of things with them, as I wasn't into cheating. Luckily, you could see it coming a mile away. The people that really cheese me off are the ones who behave as though you have already had the chat, and began making demands and having expectations, then turn around and claim they are more or less still unattached because it isn't 'official'. And I am not a guy, although it may be more of a guy's attitude.

Good question and surprisingly difficult to answer! Unless it's a serious relationship I would continue seeing other people but I have to say that in my case I've always known almost straight away when a relationship was going to be a serious one.

back when i was growing up if a guy did not ask you to be his girl friend, then it was you where seeing one another and if you found another you just moved on. asking someone to be your girl friend made it more personal and just between you and him.

Cheers for the best response!

Basically, there are no "shoulds". As many have already mentioned here, everyone feels differently about this hot topic. I look at it quite simply: u get what u give! If u cheat, u will eventually be cheated on! What goes around, comes around! So, if u wanna still c other people, in the beginning of seeing someone, then u have 2 be ok with that someone also seeing other people. A "double standard" is unfair, unless u state that this is what u want, and the other person willingly agrees 2 this type of arrangement. If u wanna be exclusive, then let that be known as well, and find out how the other person feels about that. Some people feel that it's exclusive the moment they start dating someone, while others feel that it's only exclusive once u both verbally declare it. Honest communication is the key. Put your "cards" on the table at the very beginning. Let it be known exactly what u're looking 4, how u feel about this issue, and how u feel about this particular person, and where u'd like things 2 go with this person. This other person, hopefully, will be just as honest with u in return, and then u can both proceed with a clear conscience, in truth. Any deception on 1, or both of your parts, will inevitably lead 2 future misery. If u're truthful, yet the other person is deceitful, the signs will be there. U just have 2 c them, honestly, not thru "rose-colored" glasses. If u're not willing 2 look at the truth of a situation, then u're deluding yourself, living in a fantasy. If u're deceitful, karma will get u as well. Plus, in lying, u can't truly be fulfilled either, even if u think u're getting away with it on the surface. The Universe knows u're lying, and u will definitely reap what u sow. So, just be honest and clear with that person, and most importantly, with yourself! Good luck!

Only sage who live in cave do not wander.And,who has control over his mind.Most of the time you dont go on date with a written script and act on the spur of the moment.You kiss if you feel like kissing,go further ahead if you ,both,feel like.As your mind is not shut and thought not still so you fancy other guy/gal whom you get attracted too.Everything is ok in youth.

Wow! What a question. Hmmmm, how to answer. I'm usually so crazy about the person I wouldn't think abut anyone else, but that's me. all the best urban

I am aterrible lol..I burnt my husband via the first lovemailand on the second email we said we would not accept proposals fromanyone else..wemet on internet ..lol..I am very faithfuland one trackminded lol..I never forget the first lovemails we exchanged and I knew fromthe first mail we were going to be lovers..There was too much fire from this fireball burning all the way over the atlantic. I say fromthe moment you get that gut feeling in the pit of your stomach..that feeling..no one else get's even a look in..

I'd say different people would have different views on this. I don't think there is a certain period of time you should wait to Kiss or Hug or Make Out or whatever it is you feel you want to do to show your love. However I will say it's very important to know where your partner stands on this topic and make sure they are fine with it before you start trying to do things.