Lies, hurtful lies.....

@Zelmarq (11509)
Cebu City, Philippines
March 22, 2007 8:47pm CST
My quiet time for March 22, 2006 Thursday My heart now cries out to you Lord.I am so hurt. So hurt by lies and neve ending lies.Why does people always have to tell lies and hurt me like this? Do I deserve to be treated like this? Or am I to expectant and have expected too much from people thats why they have to lie?Lord, please comfort me in this time, as I struggle with this great hurt I feel in my heart. I know I am hurting but I know the person concerned he is hurting much more than i am. Pleas Lord , help me accept the things as they are today and let me lilimt my expectations to where he is only capable. I care for him so much that I have realized that I dictated his life and have expected too much from him all the time. Please help me accept that people will never be what I expect them to be and they are not in this world to live up with anybody's expectations. Comfort his family, I know that his parents and his family are also expecting a lot from him.Help him endure the torture that he will be experiencing from this day on. Guide him to find solace, strength and comfort in your word. Why cant he just tell me the truth rather than leeting me expect the things I know is never happening. Help me accept it Lord with a humble heart.It may all be too hard for him to tell me the truth. And Lord, whatever it is that he have in mind please help himsucceed, guide him. I am just here and give him the support that he needs. Seal my mouth Lord that I may not say anymore the things that would hurt him.I confess that I feel betrayed. Forgive me Lord, for all the things that I have said that hurt him. But Lord, I am asking too much? I just wanted the best for him and want to push him some more so he could press on and reach the goals that he had set for himself. Touch him Lord, I pray that he may focus to the work at hand and help him see carefully the plans that you have set for his life. I know that you are faithfull and will do something in his life. Comfort me and guard my lips at all times and help me accept the things as they are and not the way I wanted them to be.I pray for the truth be said and the lies will come to an end.
5 responses
• United States
23 Mar 07
Honey, I am sorry you are hurting so bad. I pray that Jesus will comfort you and give you peace.
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@Zelmarq (11509)
• Cebu City, Philippines
23 Mar 07
Hello Margie! Thank you for your prayers,yes it hurts but I know God's hands are there to comfort me and there to wipe my tears away.
• United States
23 Mar 07
I am glad you are aware of this dear. Jesus loves you and is there always with you.
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@Zelmarq (11509)
• Cebu City, Philippines
25 Mar 07
yes marge and am thankful I got friends in mylot like you, even if I have not seen you I have found friendship in you.Thank you!
@minty3 (592)
• Nigeria
27 Mar 07
Human beings will alway prove that they are mere mortals so you cant lean too much on them or expect too much cos they will fail you. Why not rather lean on God, trust Him and expect from him and He will use anyone for you. Besides, in relationships, you learn to compromise when you really love even when it hurts at times. I hope you get over your hurts soon.
@Zelmarq (11509)
• Cebu City, Philippines
27 Mar 07
Hello minty! Yes, when we expect too much we fail and it frustrates us and cause us pain. In relationships there are no guarantees that you wont get hurt. I am hurting but I know soon I will get over it. Thank you!
• Canada
25 Mar 07
Hi Zelmarq ... i am sorry that you are in such pain. Lies really do hurt, but in the end the truth always has a way of coming out.
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@Zelmarq (11509)
• Cebu City, Philippines
25 Mar 07
Yes the truth would set us free, I just want to hear the truth but the damage has been done. I can only cry out those pains and let the tears fall down.
@kiwikidz (753)
• New Zealand
23 Mar 07
Yes lies and deceit will alway lead to a path of destruction, but truth will lead you to the path of righteousness. I will pray that things will work themselves out and that you and your friend can go on with your lives, maybe together or apart, only God has that knowledge. I read a beautiful little quote that a friend sent me today. It says "The love of God is like the ocean, you can see it's beginning but not it's end." God Bless.
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@Zelmarq (11509)
• Cebu City, Philippines
23 Mar 07
very true kiwi, yes hope things will get better soon, we just have to talk this over and hear the truth behind the lies. God bless you!
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
this is really the time to get repent and feel sorry for all our weakneses and failures and sins..
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@Zelmarq (11509)
• Cebu City, Philippines
23 Mar 07
Lies does hurt you when you have trusted the person and when you care so much.