Ladies, this is especially for you ?

@samrat16 (2442)
India
April 1, 2007 11:23pm CST
Question : What is the FIRST thing you notice about a guy after the initial "looks" of him. I'm talking point blank contact with him, so you can see all his facial features, clothes, etc. So if you say "looks," please elloborate =] Guys, if you can also help me on the post you are most welcome . Thanks.
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@kerry1804 (214)
• India
2 Apr 07
i think ladies are most attracted to a person who have big wallet pocket.. he he he..
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@Michele21 (3094)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Very true!!!
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@matlgal (1687)
• United States
2 Apr 07
I have to see the smile- If it's a genuine happy smile then it will show in their eyes. If it's a fake smile or just a patronizing smile then I know that they are just players and not the type of guy I need to be wasting my time on. I should have paid more attention to that 4 husbands ago ! LOL
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@deepti15 (1190)
• India
5 Apr 07
Well, to me the way the person talks is very important, what language or gestures he is using while he is talking with other people, especially with elders or senior citizens. Ofcourse the attire or dressing sense should be apt to the atmosphere or occasion but most important is how is he as a human being in general. Infact I would likt to watch how he is dealing with the normal things in life, because some wise person said that, its not aptitude but attitude that decides your altitude.
@atramesil (685)
• United States
3 Apr 07
Actually, I make note of body language. Do they have an aggressive stance, Open and friendly. a hurried or steady gait. Speech patterns, too. Oh yes a nice smile. Nothing puts off more than a nice looking man who then smiles with a snaggled up set of teeth.
@austere (2816)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
Before looks really matter to me, but when i met my boyfriend my stand about this matter changed!haha i mean, yes, women put standards (physically) in choosing a boyfriend but when you meet somebody and know the person deeply, you'll understand that looks are just a small part of the whole package. What really acquire the bigger importance is that the guy understands you, he can communicate, he makes a lot of sense, he make you smile and of course makes you feel loved. When you find this guy, even if he isnt that handsome, surely you'll fall for him!hehe (i mean the gurl whoever is reading this, not you samrat!haha)
@polachicago (19073)
• United States
2 Apr 07
" blank contact"? I want to know more about people, initial look is not enough. "Brain" is the most important feature I am looking for....
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@bjpbunny (348)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Their personality, they have to have a good personality, not someone who loves themself and is stuck up either. Has to have a sense of humor. I also like nice formed fit arms, dont know why, and good shoulders.
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• Malaysia
2 Apr 07
I will go for men that is mysterious.I mean that he never want to talk to me but he looks at me:P I like handsome guys but when it comes to talking, I prefer the mysterious guys cause usually they are kind not like the handsome guys..PLAYERS!!They know they can win many girls!!So, the bottom line is I will go for his personalities and looks comes then or never at all!hehe..That's my taste:)
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@Michele21 (3094)
• United States
2 Apr 07
I botice a guys teeth and hair first!! The teeth have to be straight and the hair just has to look good, no particulat style or cut.
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@obang1483 (250)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
hmmmm.....I would have to say the way he looks....you know that look in his eyes that's screaming "LET'S GET IT ON!!!.....hahahahaha....(joke!) no seriously the way he looks on something... the one that makes him so miserable... LOL.. I sounded a little creepy..
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@subathra (3519)
• India
2 Apr 07
His outlook appearance ..i mean the way he has dressed up .If he is dressed up neat my eyes will catch him otherwise i will not turn to look at him.
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@kathy77 (7488)
• Australia
2 Apr 07
Answer: The answer to your question is his appearance he has to look clean first of all, such as shave, his finger nails cleaned, his clothing and his mannerism are very important to me and if this is not right then I would not be interested in him.
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@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
2 Apr 07
The smile!!! If he has a great smile with that mischevious touch then I am hooked. I like a man who is educated and funny and appreciates me for who I am. I am not looking for prince charming or a rich guy, just someone with a sense of humor, adventure and not afraid to enjoy life. I met someone like this about a month ago and he blew me away! He is fun to be with, sincere, and he can cook and clean....AMAZING! Please....don't anyone pinch me or wake me up, this is wonderful!!!!
@aissha (2036)
• India
2 Apr 07
first thing for me is how clean is the person then ,facial features ,eyes first and his gaze ait shud not be intimiditating then smile ,if one has goodread cute smile thats it ,and yes he shud talk senses with good humour,right now this much i can think of,give me best answer i hv been vey speicific ,right
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• United States
2 Apr 07
I notice a sense of humor basically...........but I do like eyes and shoulder muscles although I don't know why :)
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@Swtrose (3399)
• Canada
2 Apr 07
Well I'm a married woman, so I don't go around noticing other men. I would have to say on first meeting anyone, their personality stands out the most.
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