what should we do when someone hurts us?

I am a person who does not ever want hurt anyone either. I don't know why some people have to make life a game. It is too short to play with other peoples feelings. When I was younger, I wanted to be around people who were trustworthy and who i could count on. that was very hard to find and I got my amotions played with alot by alot of them. I just stayed away from the ones who didn't look at life the way I did. I finally met someone who didn't want to play around with my heart and feelings. We have been together for 15 years now and married for 12 of them. I would just stay away from the people who are not sincere with you and look for someone who will be.

Such happens a lot in a man's life. Do not be upset. If someone hurts you then forgive that person. Talk and behave so somberly and soothingly to that person that, he/she feels ashamed of the bad behaviour done to you. But if you feel revengeful, then wait till you accumulate enough power, and wait till the situation comes in your favour. That may take you minutes, hrs, days, months, or even years, but wait patiently. Then when you feel you have so much power to retaliate, that you won't be hurt once again in any way, take your revenge. But always try to be forgiving.