people come to you for friends request or you request for friends?

India
April 9, 2007 10:12pm CST
mostly i go for them,coz i know that in this very big society of mylot its hard that the person you want to be friend with,will come to you asking for friendship. so,i always walk to them instead waiting for them to add. I love making friends here at mylot. but,i dont know your views,do you do the same or you wait for the other people to come to you for the same.
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13 responses
@Zelmarq (11503)
• Cebu City, Philippines
15 Apr 07
Most of the time I just accept friends request here on mylot. Request just keep coming everyday and Im glad everyday have a new friend to add here.
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
15 Apr 07
Do they al parcicipate that is the question?
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
10 Apr 07
i think I have requested maybe one friend the rest ask me.I have quite a few friends here on Mylot,but some of them are not very faithful friends ...They have not answered my discussions, after they do not answer me for a while i will delete them if they don't answer my discussions.I don't have time to deal with friends that don't really want to be friends...Some just ask to be your friend and then you never hear from them again...I always try to answer all my friends discussions,the only reason I won't answer is if they ask something i don't know what they are talking about..I noticed i have two pending friends as we speak...
• India
15 Apr 07
may i know who that one piece lucky friend was to whom u have requested to be friends? I have noticed the point about discussion with friends.
• China
10 Apr 07
Sometimes I will add others,sometimes I am added by others,when I add others,by my feeling,if i think the one will be a friend of mine,I will add him/her,though sometimes they don't passed me,hehe.
• India
18 Apr 07
right!
@crackhead (1826)
• India
10 Apr 07
Most of the friends in my list are those whom i have requested and added them. I had very less requests when compared to those i requested. But i am happy that only 2 or 3 people turned down my request as friend and the others added me without any hesitation. Thanks for all those. But i am sad that most of my friends are not interested in my discussions and i find it difficult to get along when most of the friends are not responding. wish they will respond and i am just getting along with those. Nice to be here among such a big bunch of people who do share their ideas all the time.
• India
10 Apr 07
its nothing to be sad about,people are always interested in answering discussions,the thing matters is your question should be easily gottable and working. so all the best for futher.....
@obang1483 (250)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
I don't request... I just wait for them to send me their invite... I'm not always here in my lot...so basically if I add them all..there would be a time that they would ask why i don't respond on their discussion and It's not easy explaining everything to each one of them...but If they are the one that ask for my friendship at least i have an alibi when it comes to that situation... at least they are the one who requested my friendship not me... I am a friendly person I must say... but I just don't want to be on that situation. and yet... I'm not always here but when I'm here I always make an effort responding to them. I don't want them to think I don't worth anything to be a friend.
• India
10 Apr 07
great so,then be my friend....i am adding you up in my list.
• Indonesia
10 Apr 07
Mostly people come to be my friend, but sometimes i request people to be my friend
• India
10 Apr 07
so,will u come to me or i should come to you.
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
28 Mar 08
I have added a lot myself that wanted me as a friend. I have picked out a few though myself that I have something in comman with.
@eseomame (1146)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I won't say that I wait for people to come to me for friendship on myLot as such, however, most of my friends have requested my friendship and I also request some of my friendships, but generally, I receive more friends request than I send.
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
15 Apr 07
i dont ask to be on someones friends list because rejection hurts so much. After saying this I also reject far more requests than i accept. I will only respond positively if i have a few things in common with the person requesting blessed be
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
15 Apr 07
I really go by interst, if I want them to be my friends, mostly they pick me. I have seen your name here before. I would be glad to be your friend as long ask you aswer my discussions and I will aswer yours, I alot of friends you get don't even parcicipate they just ask to be friends and do things there own way.
@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
10 Apr 07
People come to me to request and I will accept them and sometimes I would request them too. I enjoyed making friends here on Mylot since they are all over the world.
@taymouse (585)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I don't usually do a lot of friend requesting unless I'm in the mood to add a random person, or if I'm already visiting their profile for some reason or another. I guess I should start requesting more because it will help me get more responses to my discussions here, and I will also have more discussions to reply to from new friends.
@musu112 (528)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I am also in a same kinda situation, but I am also welcome to all of those who wannabe my friend, as of now i am mostly adding people to be my friend, I really like on myLot being making a circle online.....