My Daughter Amanda - She is My Miracle

My daughter Amanda - She is standing outside with my azaleas before the winter blast hit over the weekend.
@SheliaLee (2736)
United States
April 10, 2007 2:54pm CST
On December 11, 1986 I was blessed to become a mother for the first time. That is when my daughter Amanda was born. The doctors could tell something wasn't right because I wasn't growing like I should during my pregnancy but I think they kept it from me because they didn't want to cause undue stress. When Amanda was born I noticed her skin color was blue but I didn't know anything was wrong. They took her on to the nursery and I expected them to bring her to me later when they checked her out. Later the pediatrician we had chosen came to my room. He sat there talking to me and my husband trying to explain to us that Amanda had a serious problem. Her pulmonary artery and her aorta were completely reversed. It is a condition called transposition of the greater vessels. I had never heard of anything like this. He told us that they were going to have to transport her to Huntsville, Alabama to give her better care. I was in the hospital in Florence, Alabama. They wouldn't let me go since I had just given birth but my husband was going to Huntsville to be with her. They let me go to the nursery to see her before they took her to Huntsville. I can still see her at that point lying in the incubator, so small and blue. I reached my hand inside and she grabbed my pinkie finger and held on tight. I told her I loved her and they rolled me back to my room crying as they prepared her to go. My husband called me some time later from Huntsville. The doctors had done what I felt was a cruel thing. They told my husband we needed to get ready for an autopsy. Thankfully he has an aunt that lives in Huntsville and she was able to come and give him support until his parents could get there. When he called me I called my mother and pastor and told them the situation. Prayers started going up all over my little one. They were finally able to stabilize her enough to travel to Birmingham. When she got there they did a procedure to help her get enough oxygen until she could grow some more and get stronger. My husband and I stayed in Birmingham with her until she was able to go home. When she was four months ago they did open heart surgery to reroute the vessels of her heart. To see my daughter now no one would ever know that she had ever had a problem. She has grown into a healthy young woman that I'm very proud of and love very much. We still take her to Birmingham once a year for a progress visit. She has done fine and the doctor is always pleased. I'm so thankful the Lord gave me the privilege to be a mother and gave me my daughter Amanda!!
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@ozzydee70 (465)
• Germany
10 Apr 07
what a touching story, my experience is not even half of what you went thru with your daughter. Miracle really happen to those who believe in him.. you're really blessed
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Amen!! She continues to be a blessing!!
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
24 Apr 07
You are so very welcome!! The picture of the baby on your Avatar is precious!! Is that your baby? I know you are proud!! I would be!!
• Germany
23 Apr 07
thank you for the best response! god bless you and your family
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
16 May 07
I am so sorry that you had to go through this It must have been really tough on you as you where not allowed to go with her I am happy though that your Daughter survived it all and that she is ok now
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
16 May 07
I am really glad that it turned out so well for all of you And thank you I am sure it will be ok but if not I will still deal with it Hugs to you
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
16 May 07
Amanda at our favorite Mexican Restaurant - Amanda was waiting outside for the rest of us when one of the waiters wanted to take this picture of her.
Thank you hon. It was hard but I know the Lord had a purpose in it somehow. She has just finished her second year in college and is still trying to figure out exactly what she wants to do. Something good will come out of all of this. I hope you get to feeling better soon with your back problems and find out what is going on. SheliaLee
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I am happy for you. It is good that you didn't give up on her. I'm glad you could find someone that could help and did. Doctors can be cruel when they tell you results that they find. I think they have built a wall so that they are not affected by all the bad things they see.
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
16 May 07
Yes they can, I thought that was awful for them to do my husband that way. I'm so thankful his aunt was able to come be with him until they took her to Birmingham.
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
2 May 07
Wow that is really a great story about your daughter. And your right you would never know she had such a problem. Medicine is a great thing. She was certainly a strong little baby to survive an operation at such a young age. Im glad for you and your husband and your daughter Amanda.
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
4 May 07
Thank you for your response. We are very blessed to have her.
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@txwoman36 (173)
• United States
11 Apr 07
thanks for sharing your story. im glad to hear your daughter is doing good. i know miracles can hapen and glad that your prayers were answered.
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
24 Apr 07
I appreciate your response. I'm glad others believe in miracles and prayers also!!
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@lightningMD (5931)
• United States
10 Apr 07
congratulations on your miracle daughter..i have to tell you this was the best post i have read yet here om myLot...it proves that prayer is a powerful thing...i am so very happy for you..
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Bless your heart! I agree with you. Prayer works when nothing else does.
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@DavidReedy (2378)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Beautiful story, Beautiful beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it. Congratulations on the wonderful miracle in your life. dr...
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@emskoneko (805)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I'm so happy for you, your family, and your daughter. You must look back at this and be so thankful. I'm glad she is doing fine and has grown up. Have a wonderful day.
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
10 Apr 07
That is sweet of you. I appreciate it and you have wonderful day too!
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@AmbiePam (85560)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I don't think she can ever doubt she is here for a reason. : )
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I agree. She is 20 years old and knows exactly what happened to her. She knows if God had not been watching over her she wouldn't have made it. I'm thankful that she has been saved.
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• Canada
11 Apr 07
Wow, what a story! I cannot imagine how scary and stressful that must have been for you. I'm so glad to hear that everything went well and that your daughter has grown up into a wonderful lady. When things like this happen, we can ask for a miracle, and sometimes, just sometimes, we get what we prayed for. Thank you so much for sharing your story. If anyone out there is going through something like this now, I'm sure it will bring them comfort.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Congratualtions. My daughter Caitlyn was born with a heart condition as well Tetralogy of Fallot. One side of her heart was bigger then the other. The childrens hospital prepared me for the worse.Caitlyn had her open heart surgery when she was 5 months old. Her heart wouldn't go into synch. She came home with a pacemaker. This past October Caitlyn got a new pacemaker but is doing wonderfully. I just told you this story because I wanted you to know that I do realize how worried and scared you were. I know what miracle you have recieved. "hugs"
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Thank you for sharing that with me dear friend. I'm so thankful your daughter is doing well. Thank the Lord for modern medicine!! Hugs to you too!!
@faythlyn (94)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Oh, that brought me to tears. I'm so glad everything worked out!! You must be a very strong woman to go through all that, and to come out on top!!
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@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Dear Friend, The Lord is the one who brought me and my family through it because believe me I didn't feel very strong at the time within myself. But I could definitely feel the prayers of my family and church family and also people who had never even met us. The Lord will not place anything on us that we cannot bear. God Bless You!!
@Dana5881 (609)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Wow what a real blessing. I am happy everything turned out alright in the end. Doctors can be so negative and deceiving at times. Your little one wanted to be here on Earth so much that she beat the odds. You must feel so lucky and blessed to have her. Never forget to let her know you love her. It's the best thing a parent can say to a child.
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• India
31 Dec 08
I am really happy for you and your daughter. i think the hospital must see all this.and i wish a very good luck for you and your family.nice to read that.
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• India
11 Apr 07
ur daughter is really a miracle...u shud be a proud mother!!!!!!!!
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@DavidReedy (2378)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Beautiful story. Beautiful beyond belief. Thank you for sharing, and congratulations for this miracle in your life.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Apr 07
its really a miracle. u are truely lucky that you got her back. I have heard many children have this difficulty. But very few of them manage to survive. U are lucky that you have got her back.
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@mememama (3076)
• United States
10 Apr 07
thank you for sharing your story, I'm sure it makes all of us mothers hug our children one extra time today :)
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@itkasp (266)
• Australia
11 Apr 07
Hi SheliaLee, what a wonderful story !. Praise the Lord!. Your experience has strengthened me. It shows that the Lord never leaves us alone in our trials. His love and grace always guide our life. God Bless you.
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Reading this, I'm thinking of my partner right now who'd be having her due for our first baby any time this month. I'm always praying for her to have a normal delivery for our precious one. I was touched with your real life experience and I'm happy for you. This is one great feeling a parent could ever have for his/her daughter/son. This is our first baby so I'm really having mixed-feelings right now.