who is good listener?

ear - listener
United States
April 11, 2007 1:06pm CST
i think its good to be a good listener and i am a good listener how about you? are you a good listener?
2 responses
@wolfie34 (26793)
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 07
Yes I am a good listener but only to certain people, not my housemate because he never listens to me, and have a nasty habit of selected hearing, i.e he only hears what he wants to hear, so I do the same to him. I do find that people 'offload' their problems onto me because I am placid, easy going and a good listener, sometimes you know that is not a good thing to be as you have to listen to other people's problems whilst facing your own!
• United States
12 Apr 07
selectively hearing thatz interesting!
@loved1 (5337)
• United States
11 Apr 07
I am a really good listener and many people come to me when they have problems they want to discuss. The funny thing is, all of these people will tell you I give great advice, when all I really do is listen to them and ask questions. They figure out the problem all by themselves. They just need a non judgemental sounding board.
• United States
11 Apr 07
right on