Would you like to change any part of your personality ??

@patootie (3593)
April 12, 2007 6:02am CST
I think if I could I would really like to change one part of my personality .. I do rather like having an 'easy' life without conflict .. but I feel that makes me too quick to give in and just go with the flow to keep everyone happy .. So I would like to be a little more self assured and a little more forceful in making sure I do what I want sometimes rather than always doing what other people want 'for a quiet life' .. But what would you change and why ??
4 people like this
22 responses
• India
13 Apr 07
I would like to be less emotional in my life.. I hope my approach towards people would be more practical than emotional..
• India
13 Apr 07
Yes definitely. The change should bring me forth as a better person than what I am at present. But it is very difficult for a person to do so for two reason. First is that the person himself seldom realises negative aspects of himself and secondly it is very difficult to change what one has been doing since so long. We can get to know about our weak personality traits through others, who are honestly willing to do that for us.
• China
13 Apr 07
some times i like to change my personality but some times i like myself as i am....
@subha12 (18462)
• India
13 Apr 07
If u say that if i wwant to change any part of my personality, i want to change my iontrovert nature. i think i lose many opportunities due to this. I like to also improve my public spaeking skill. othe things that you ahave mentioned are not actually related to personality i think.
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
I guess i want to change the bossy side of me. Sometimes I really think that if a person is bossy he/she needs attention. Which sometimes leads to bad things.... But I'm happy with my personality, it makes me ME.... (good day)
• United States
13 Apr 07
I think the part of my personality I would change would be the fact I am shy. I HATE HATE not being outgoing enough. Its horrible. Imagine my whole life having issues talking to people. My sister got outgoing, I got shy.
• Malaysia
13 Apr 07
Erm, I think I also want to change my own personality and I think I want to change my attitude. Now, I am a silent man and want to change to happy and funny man. I also want to change my fesyen style. I want to try an expensive jeans and well known t-shirt. I also want to change my hair style. I think my hair style now is ugly and I want to wear a glass because my eyes is not OK. So, thats all I want to change my personality.
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
If I have the chance, I would have changed the tameness in me. I was bullied in high school by insecured girls and all I did was cry and be quiet. Now I know if I only confronted them they would have not bullied me that much.
@chryss (658)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
thru personality,let people knows you by that,by seeing your personality they can easily who you are.regarding the question,do i have to change any part of my personality?yes i do!if i would change one...it will be my trait being a kind hearted one..cos having this kind of trait you can't even feel any anger to somebody you always have pity on them..i can say this cos i experienced it..even someone doing some rude things i rather ignore them.i dont want any argument..i'll just stay calm.and if sometimes i saw street children i feel sorry for them.i have the feelings inside that makes me feel drowning i mean i dont want to see children roaming around looks so dirty and no food to eat..i want to have a brave heart..so i would like to change kind hearted heart to a brave heart.
• United States
13 Apr 07
I would like to change the phony part in my personality because I just need totell people hoe I really feel and stop pretending. any ideas how to change that it could really help
• United States
13 Apr 07
I would like to change the phony part in my personality because I just need totell people hoe I really feel and stop pretending. any ideas how to change that it could really help
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
I would like to replace my laziness with harworking. Hah! If that's gonna work just like that..=/
@darkzzt (760)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
shyness can cramp your style - shyness can cramp your style.
i'd like to be more outgoing. i feel that i am too shy and that will affect my relationships and how far i go in life. i have been shy all of my life ever since i was little and i want to change that.
• United States
12 Apr 07
There is one part of my personality i would LOVE to change. I am a shy person, and thats really an obstacle with what I want to do in life, act. lol. I got over some of my shyness, but I still get nervous when performing in front of people. I wish I was completely shy, nerves-free. I would love to be completely carefree while acting.
@loved1 (5338)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I would really love to be more patient. I tend to get irritated when I have to wait for anything. It makes it really hard for me because I work with children and that takes a lot of patience. The funny thing is, most people who know me would tell you I am extremely patient. It is something I constantly have to remind myself about though. I also know if I had more patience I would be less likely to lose my temper. I guess I am still a work in progress.
@sweetlady10 (3620)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I would like to change a little about my personality as well. As a person I am very emotional. One samll things can touch me so much that that can ruin my whole day. I have to go through hard time because of this strong emotional feelings. I would like to reduce it a bit:). And also I go according to make others happy like you. We should think about others but also we should go according to our wish and beliefs. I would like to change a bit of this both part of my personality.
@sunup13 (420)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
Good question, if I could change something about my personality it would be not to be so "jealous" and hold grudges. I say both because they always come hand in hand for me. My boyfriend says I'm too jealous but to me the things I do and say are not because of jealous but because I feel the person has done something to me and I won't let go of it and give them another chance. I give my friends and boyfriend lots of chances but I never froget their fauz pas or wrong doings against me, but anyone outside of those relationships, I won't forgive. Its a defense mechanism I know, I don't like to be hurt but I also don't want to lose friends I have had for a long time. Its like I'd rather keep bad friends than make new ones...
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Well that you and me together then as that is my Fall down to but over the Last Year I am a bit more forceful as I was fed up with People trying to lead my Life My Kids don't even do that so why where other People trying to tell what to do
@weemam (13389)
12 Apr 07
I too would like to be able to stand up for myself more , When I go to a church meeting , the first thing my hubby asks is ,"what have you volunteered to do this time " I just can't help it , I hoped I would get better as I got older but it has happened yet lol . I am OK about everything else , I am honest and I make friends easily . I am loving and caring , ( so I am told ) but being a bit more assuring ( is that the word lol? ) would be good xx
@patgalca (13962)
• Orangeville, Ontario
12 Apr 07
Just one part? LOL! I wish I could be less of a control freak. I think it stems from the lack of control I had in my first marriage and because I don't want my current life to resemble that life in any way, I want to be able to control everything. I want to be able to be happy with my life as it is and not try and change everybody and everything to suit me.