Cleaning.. I have to do it, but I don't wanna....yuck!!

Cleaning,scrubbing,mopping,sweeping,please help!! - Cleaning,scrubbing,mopping,sweeping,please help!! I hate it all.
United States
April 12, 2007 9:54am CST
I am sitting here in between loads of laundry, thinking about all I need to do today. It is my only day off and I have to load the dishwasher, do laundry, clean the house, walk the dog, take my son to the doctor. It just feels like it never ends. Do any of you ever feel like it's all too much? Do you feel like you'd rather just slack off and do nothing? I do right now..walk the dog, check the dryer, load the washer, clean the kitchen, bathroom, kids room....aggggggggggggggg... Calgon take me away!!!!
12 people like this
23 responses
12 Apr 07
Great photo tag (before I forget to say). At the risk of making things worse, umm, I don't know how to say it so both feet first. My husband is a star. He ran his own house/flat before he married me and still does lots to help. He does not mind cooking even does the ironing occasionally and lets me get away with loads. I have spent my day off on the computer and now have square eyes. Mind you I have still done two loads of washing and am going to put the clothes away and clean the bathroom in a minute when I let somebody else have a turn on here. What gets me is when I am ill these jobs don't get done and wait until I am better. Whereas if he is ill or away I cover all of his jobs as well as mine. Still apparently I can't complain.
3 people like this
• United States
12 Apr 07
lol. thanks for the photo compliment. My husband will cook occasionally, and does help after a bit of chiding. He will not put clothes away (he says he doesn't know where they all go) and he will not do dishes (he does a really bad job anyway, which I think he does on purpose so he doesn't have to...lol) That's my problem too, I have been working 6 days straight and NOTHING has been done in this house NOTHING !!!!
12 Apr 07
I did a bit of cleaning to look good and now am back. We have teenagers and have shown them how to do chores but it is difficult to even get my daughter to scrape the left over food (!) off her plate let alone anything else. We wondered how our son would cope at University but he seems to be managing. Now he is home he says he is on holiday and still won't help. My fault I suppose. They are lovely though.
1 person likes this
• United States
12 Apr 07
Today is my cleaning day too. I must say that I am not looking forward to it at all. I feel so overwhelmed I don't know where to start. At least you have a partial list going and know what you are setting out to do. I still have to sit down and do that part. So, misheleen, don't feel alone. I am there with ya in spirit. Hey, I'll race ya, lol
3 people like this
• United States
12 Apr 07
lol. Well since posting this thread, I have finished 2 loads of laundry, have 1 more in the washer and 2 more in the dryers. Oh, and I got the dishwasher loaded, washed what wouldn't fit, cleaned the kitchen counters and vacuumed behind my computer desk. So much more to do though !!!
1 person likes this
@GuateMom (1411)
• Canada
14 Apr 07
I hate cleaning too. I know exactly how you feel, today is a cleaning day here, too! Yuck. The fridge needs cleaning, the dishes are stacked up and there is an entire tub of laundry to be done by hand. :P I feel for you. Which is why we are both on Mylot, right? :)
2 people like this
• United States
14 Apr 07
I got on in between the daunting chores..yuck !!
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
13 Apr 07
i hate laundry lol I have a closet full to do and I have to take out the trash and I have to sweep the trash out and also clean out the van and to clean up my sons room and to as they say spring clean and clean the cat litter out lol and I need to sweep the floor and to clean and mow the yard and to go grocery shopping all in 1 day lol but that seems impossible all in 1 day.
2 people like this
• United States
13 Apr 07
and sometimes it is !!! lol I know the feeling.
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
12 Apr 07
Hehehe so you are suffering. Even I suffered same last monday. As I went out with my wife on weekends and wasn't able to goto office , I had some four major files waiting for me. I had to complete all pending work . It took me some 7 hours to complete all. I really regret for not doing work when it was suppose to . Anyway need help !!! Sorry dear you live too far for me to come and help you. If I would have been near, would definately have helped you.
• United States
12 Apr 07
thanks Sam.. you could always hop on a plane !! LOL I wish I could just have a nice relaxing day off for once !!
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 May 07
i love to do household chores but i hate washing.. my husband used to do that for me he also walks the dog around while taking care of our son.. and im the one to clean the house..
2 people like this
• United States
18 May 07
I do all of it. Thanks for responding
• Philippines
18 May 07
try to seek some help from your housemate.. so that you dont get too tired and not get sick for doing all things with your own..
• United States
19 Apr 07
I feel like that too, a lot. And every day is my day off since I am a stay at home mom. I don't know how working mothers do it all.
1 person likes this
• United States
19 Apr 07
It is not easy grasshopper !! LOL I am kidding. I envy you being a stay at home mom, sometimes I wish I could too !!
• United States
13 Apr 07
LMAO, Yes All the time. I am a work at home mom and only take wednesdays off. Well them days we have extra work to do, cheerleading for 2 kids, family comes over for dinner. Its horriable, and thats my one day off. LOL.. it never ends here either. I have 3 kids, a buttload of animals and a husband thats worse then all of them. lol
• United States
13 Apr 07
lol, I totally get the husband part..lmao
@rx4life (1930)
• United States
13 Apr 07
Oh I can relate...It was my day off today..and I had to finish the taxes...yuck...and in between, run loads of wash, toss them in the dryer and reload the washer, mop the kitchen floor, clean 2 bathrooms and the kitchen, run to the store to get a few necessities, set up all my husband's medicines, re-order medicine, make a doctor's appt, mend a pair of slacks for my husband, go pick up his dress shirts at the cleaners, get gas in the car, wash the car, work on the taxes somemore, send some business emails out, pay the bills, make a deposit at the credit union and set up my monthly volunteer schedule....whew....I'm glad this day is over...but don't feel like I got much time to myself...At this moment I'm glad I don't have a dog..but I did have to walk my 5 miles on the treadmill...so my FUN day off is over...but at least a few things are done...and a lot aren't...but they'll be there when I get home tomorrow and I'll start all over again...Let's face it..we have 2 jobs..and we just go from one to the other!!! LOL...I am grateful for my job and also for my home...so I shouldn't complain...but I did!!!!! and today even Calgon couldn't have taken me far enough!!!! I think I need a wife!!!!LOL....
• United States
13 Apr 07
you know, I was thinking about getting a wife myself...lol Calgon didn't work for me either, but hey, a woman can dream right ?? lol
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
13 Apr 07
LOL i am so with you :):):) It just keeps going on and on and it never stops and sometimes I would just like a break no matter how small:) It's not that I don't like to do those things, sometimes it relaxes me doing them, but it's the repetition that gets to me. Day in, day out. You do it now, have to do it again tomorrow, or next week. And it never stops. Sometimes you just do something now and in 5 minutes you have to do it again ...
• United States
13 Apr 07
yup, I always tell my kids..Please don't mess it up, let me have just 1 day, please !!!
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
13 Apr 07
I do slack off more than I clean. My house is always a mess. Then when people want to come over i have to work twice as hard to clean it. Since I have my computer my house always suffers. I hate dishes, I hate dusting, I hate vacuuming. I HATE housework!!
• United States
13 Apr 07
ME TOO !!! I get so annoyed when I know I have to clean. What gets me is I don't even make the mess I'm cleaning.
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
Oh my friend, I can perfectly UNDERSTAND what you're feeling. I may be a sucker for cleanliness but I also tend to laze around and stared at nothing. It seems like 24 hours is not enough for me to accomplish everything. I was just about to take a rest when something appeared right before my eyes that's begging me to clean them up. grrrr...
• United States
13 Apr 07
it's sad that as soon as you sit down, you notice something out of the corner of your eye, and you HAVE to get it done. There are not enough hours in the day to get everything done. Maybe one day, when I collapse from exhaustion, someone in my house will realize they need to help out some more.
@abroji (3247)
• India
18 May 07
Whereever in the world women moves the society. Families stay in comfort because of them. Houses are cleanly maintained by them. Children are brought up healthy by them. Pets are looked after by them. Men are properly maintained by them. They are the base of their family. Without them houses will be miscerable.
@abroji (3247)
• India
18 May 07
Be proud of being one. Thank you for the comment.
1 person likes this
• United States
18 May 07
yes, without them, alot of things would be miserable. I agree, as I am one of them..lol
1 person likes this
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I use to hate my days off because they never really felt like days off with all of the housework I would have to catch up on. These days it is easier because I don't have a job outside of the house. My job these days is taking care of our four dogs and my three children. I still hate to do dishes but I don't think that I will ever change about that.
1 person likes this
• United States
13 Jun 07
LOL, I think dish hating is universal !!!
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Apr 07
that was a lot of work indeed..take it easy i guess and relax at least..it no fun doing that but if you have some music around at least it will make your loads of work lighter...ive been doing that all the times listening to music tha t i like..
• United States
13 Apr 07
I listen to music from the 80's & 90's mostly when I clean too !!!
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
Well cleaning is something that is tiresome to do alright, but it is also fulfilling. Just think that no one will keep the house clean but you, unless you can hire a help.
1 person likes this
• United States
13 Apr 07
I wish I could hire help. It is fulfilling until the kids get home and mess it all up again !!!
@lols189 (4742)
13 Apr 07
i too dont enjoy cleaning but the way i look aat it if i dont clean my house then who will? ..... NO-ONE. once i finish cleaning i feel a whole lot better in myself as i hate to see my flat dirty and i like it to be clean all the time. hope you felt better after you finished your cleaning friend
1 person likes this
• United States
13 Apr 07
I do, I am also a little OCD so when things are out of place I feel utterly batty !!
@Caila611 (992)
• United States
13 Apr 07
Check out www.flylady.net . It's the best site I have ever joined! It gives you tips on how not to get stressed and how to keep up with the cleaning and chores so your not stuck with so much to do during one day! You might like it!
• United States
13 Apr 07
thanks !! I will certainly check that out !!
@stacy624 (2776)
• Canada
13 Apr 07
I'm feeling the same way today =) There is so much to be done and with 7 kids and expecting in Aug I just cant seem to get a handle on everything =( I guess though I have no other choice....Good Luck in your cleaning and all your running around! Stacy
• United States
13 Apr 07
sorry for the typo..tired..lol I meant to say "were" not "where"
@Rickrocks8 (1751)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Yes I feel like that ALOT. I think it is important that you take time for your self. And when I think about cleaning or even when I am cleaning I try to think of it as a way of blessing my family. A way that I show them that I love them. It helps me get my mind out of the funk. Right now I have a stack of shirts to iron but here I am. LOL I guess duty calls.
1 person likes this
• United States
12 Apr 07
I wish I could get into the spirit...lol. I have done 5 loads of laundry, the kitchen, re-organized my filing cabinet (it needed it) and cleaned up my room. Went to the doctors for my son, stopped by the grocery store, now I have to walk the dog and start dinner !!