Cheating Husband

@iqalburn (147)
United States
October 19, 2006 4:08pm CST
Caught my husband with my bestfriend, should I try to make our marriage work or just give it up altogether
5 responses
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
sorry dear, but this is not something I would take an opinion poll on as the decision you make is the one you will have to live with. I would suggest talking to a family councilor or therapist. If the sense of betrayal is to big to overcome and the issue of trust is on the table , it will ultimately be you that has to be the one that lives with consequences, so make your self as informed as you possibly can and best of luck
• Canada
16 Feb 07
You're a honey I love you're advice to the lady. You're a good counsellor. I'd love to have you there for me. I see you're from Canada. So am I. I lived in Penticton B.C for 18 years but now I'm in Saskatchewan. Take Care. Grandmaof2
• United States
16 Feb 07
I agree with the poster who said that the person was not your best friend. Best friends DO NOT have intimate relations with your husband. I recomend ditching both of them to the curb. They aren't worth your time.
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
20 Jan 07
First off that was not your best friend. Now four months later what has happened and maybe some of us can tell you what our opinion in for now!
• United States
23 Jan 07
If you still love him, then work things out. If you don't, then give it up. And as for your best friend, if she apologizes to you, I guess you can give her another chance. If she doesn't, well, she's not your best friend anymore.
@vnssmart5 (182)
• India
21 Jan 07
just give up ......after mariage also who can guarntee that again ur husband will go so intially in starting stage only give it up