i love my best friend

Malaysia
April 13, 2007 10:42am CST
i am falling in love with my best friend.. did it ever happen to you mylotters... how to overcome this kind of situation.. am i too selfish with myself .. can we become best friend after we are going to change our feeling.. can this kind of love be longlasting..
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@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
13 Apr 07
I love my best friend also. I met my best friend when I was 21 years old. That was 15 years ago. I had some very bad relationships in the past and I was only looking for a good friend to hang out with. I just wanted friendship from him and nothing more when we first met. As time went on, I started really appreciating his qualities and charm. I started to fall in love with him. He was really good to me and my daughter. He told me he fell in love with me soon after we met and he wanted to have a relationship with me, but I didn't. We stayed together for 3 years and our love for each other had grown very strong. He asked me to marry him and we have now been married for 12 years. I don't think you are too selfish at all. I think you should try to share your feeling with the other person and go from there, but make sure you tell them you still want to be friends if they do not have the same kind of love back for you. Good luck and best wishes with it.
@NiKe_bOi (166)
• Singapore
13 Apr 07
Well.. it happens to me a few times.. but i weight the pros and cons before i act on it.. i din told one cos i think the friendship is something i cant afford to lose.. 2 of them i told.. one is still in contact with me.. the other one has been avoiding me for 3 plus years le.. Whether love can be long lasting depends on you all.. its both of you to make it last as long as possible.. Hmmm.. You either continue to be her best friend and stay by her side or pick up the courage and tell her your feelings..
• Malaysia
13 Apr 07
it is normal if you falling in love with your best friend. This kind of love will be long lasting becasue both of you are very understand each other. this help to maintain the relationship. it is your freedom to choose to love someone,so you are not selfish with yourself. Many cople in this world begin their relationship from friendship. Becasue it is hard to love someone who you are not really know about him/her.
@garyeye (202)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
What seems to be wrong with that?, unless both you are already commited with someone, then it's wrong. Relationships that are strong are founded on strong friendships. It's selfish if you're the only one in love with your close friend and that its you who wants to make it to the next level. It takes two to tango and so are relationships, it's nice to dance with someone who trusts you from the beginning and you also depend with your life.
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