Has WORKING become too important in our lives?

United States
April 13, 2007 8:51pm CST
The other day I was talking to a friend on the phone, and in the middle of our conversation he got another call. This conversation was taking place at around 6:30 in the evening-- and after a brief pause, he came back on to tell me he had to go, that his work (a large computer company) had called and he needed to go back in for a few hours. This little incident got me to thinking about how "work" has changed, just in my lifetime. When I was a kid, my dad would leave for work at 8:00 in the morning, and be back home around 4:30. It was unheard of that his workplace would call for ANY reason, outside those hours. These days, people not only tend to work MUCH more than your basic 40-hour work week, even when they are NOT at work, many employers expect their employees to be "on call" almost ALL the time. That seems to have become standard procedure-- if you value your job, you'd better be ready to jump in the car and go back to work, if they need you. What do you think? How much do YOU have to work? Has working become TOO IMPORTANT in our lives? Does "having a job" reached a point (for many people) where it takes away our chances to "have a life?" Do our employers have too much say in how we get to live our lives? When people complain about the "breakdown of the family" do you think excessive work demands are to blame, at least in part?
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@betchai (140)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
Work has become too important for me because it gives me a sense of responsibility. I have to work everyday and sometimes overtime just to earn money for my daughter. I am considered a single mom because my husband suffered from a stroke. He couldn't work for us. It's too hard working alone for my daughter. But I have my priorities too. I leave my work for my daughter, especially when there are activities in the school. And I don't care if my employer gets mad at me.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
14 Apr 07
I've thought this for a long time, that work is more important to people that personal relationships. Both parents working to provide for more, bigger, better, whatever. "Keeping up with the Jones" attitude has replaced family dinners, sitting together and watching a family tv show or listening to music together. Oh gee how about playing a board game together? I see work being first in way too many people's lives and the family, children particularly, are paying for it.
• United States
21 Jan 08
I think people's expectations of how much "stuff" they need to have a good life have simply run out of control. The "ideal life" in the 50's (which included a lot more family togetherness) had much less "stuff" in it than life today does. People aspired to living in a "nice family house," not a "McMansion." You aspired to having a "good family car," not two late model Mercedes'es.
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
21 Jan 08
I agree totally - but my thinking is what good are all the fancy houses, spectacular vacations, and extra toys if there is no family unit to enjoy them.