Do you think having a girlfriend or boyfriend while studying is okey?

Philippines
April 17, 2007 12:17am CST
Having an inspiration in life is just normal. It helps us a lot reach our dreams that is if we know our limitations, that our top priority for now is to be able to finish our studies. If that is in our mind, then having a relationships while studying is not just okey but also cool.
6 responses
@bluishrose (2291)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Yes its ok for me because it serves as an inspiration while studying. as long as you know how to discipline yourself in regards to time emotions and how you handle the relationship without affecting your studies then there would be no problem.
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• Philippines
14 Jul 07
I agree with you. It really depend on the individual how mature he/she balance both studies and relationship.
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
based from experience, having a relationship is really fun and sweet at first but eventually you'll feel the opposite.. pressure and stress! doubt also.! i have been in a relationship now in college for a year and 9 months. i felt very stressed and i needed some space so i had to end it. but it also depends on you if you can balance your time in love life and studies... if you just want to be in a relationship because you think its cool? it'll be a waste of time. you should be in a relationship, or want someone to be yours and be in love w/ you and her as well, if both of you know that you can make each other happy. and if you understand each other. you'll get along great for sure.
@rsa101 (13350)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
For me ittotally depends on the person's personality. there are people that becomes quite crazy over love that they become unfocused on their goal finishing their studies and instead too much focused themselves on their relationship. But if you can manage your relationship well why not its true that with it while studying could also benefit and inspire you to finish your studies. For as long as they would not distract your focus on your studies then go.
@maucute (980)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
It's ok, I was in a relationship while I was studying and now I have my bachelor's degree.. It's a matter of how we discipline ourself and how we manage our time and priorities. They can be our source of encouragement when we have our not so good times, them being there to comfort us is really one great thing..
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@mmygrace (78)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend or entering into a relationship while studying is but quite for me. Inspiration is indeed very essential in a student's life. One would make the other source of his strength or encouragement while studying. Students who are into a relatonship may find their partners as colleague in reviewing, making assignements, research works and the like. The best thing to note though when entering into a "bf-gf" relationship while studying is to ensure that the inspiration does not turn into desperation when you have broke up. Eventually, one who is going to school should consider his education as still on top of all his priorities.
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@ctiu80 (216)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
yeah it's okey to have girlfriend or boyfriend if you still studying. =) because it give you inspiration to do well and study well. but you should know the limition. They nothing wrong having relationship. But it also depend on the situation if ever your girlfriend or boyfriend is good influence in your life that would be much better. It would be depend on your partner. if the relationship affecting your studying that wouldn't be good to have relationship while studying or it also depend how you control yourself. whether you gonna be affected or not. There's a lot of situation or scenario whether it good to have relationship or not. =)and it will depend on you too.