what to do to relieve pain?

@mlgb_24 (638)
April 17, 2007 9:28am CST
all of us here are experts in pain. we all have it on some level or another. some of us have gotten away lucky while some suffer greatly. but all of us are here to tell the tale, have survived and lived on to fight another day. let's say someone dear to us is in pain, in agony, we all reach out don't we...my question is, what do you know now that you wish you knew then? what would you do differently?
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lucky_witch
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
With your questions... well everything that i know right now ...and perhaps not do the things that i know will destroy me... BUT... the reality of everything is...whatever that I dont know before which lead me in being hurt helps me a lot to understand more the things that i know right now... And perhaps those things that I will do differently will lead me to another part that maybe in time...I'll wish I also didnt do... Life is a gamble...we'll win and get lost... the important lesson is in whatever we do..we LEARN... whatever we learn we USE... whatever we use is for our own GOOD... and whatever is good will not lead us to the same mistake we done... account everything to experience then from it we'll get wiser and stronger...
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mlgb_24
@mlgb_24 (638)
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17 Apr 07
i totally agree that in whatever we do, we learn..it helps us not do the same mistakes over and over again. they say that what you don't know won't hurt..but what you know, learn from it - always.
cowboyofhell
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
if someone dear to me is in pain, ill not immediately assume that id be of any help to him. first reason, he/shed rather be left alone needing time to contemplate their situation. second, sorry is the hardest word. words cant help much during times of personal crisis regardless of the fact that the words are meant to encourage. the only thing to do is to keep mouth shut so as to not exacerbate the person's frustration. now while the disappointment take place and it caused very little harm, it would be less daunting if it didnt occur at all.