Does anyone know the origins of Mother's Day?
@hockeygal4ever (10021)
United States
April 21, 2007 11:37am CST
After wondering who and why Mother's Day was created I decided to take a "google". Of course, http://www.howstuffworks.com gave me the best run down on the origins and the workings of this upcoming holiday celebrated in many countries.
Here's what I found:
Some historians claim that Mother's Day originates from ancient spring festivals dedicated to maternal goddesses. Greeks honored Rhea, wife of Cronus and mother of the gods and goddesses of Greek mythology. Ancient Romans had a spring festival dedicated to Cybele, also a mother goddess. Called Hilaria, this celebration lasted for three days and included parades, games and masquerades.
A more modern version of Mother's Day began in the 1600s in England. Mothering Sunday was celebrated on the fourth Sunday of Lent. Small gifts were given, and a special dessert called a simnel cake was served.
In the United States, Mother's Day was first suggested in 1872 by Julia Ward Howe (famous for writing the words to the "Battle Hymn of the Republic"). But it was a woman who was never a mother herself who led the campaign for national recognition of Mother's Day.
Anna Jarvis held a ceremony in 1907 in Grafton, West Virginia, to honor her mother, who had died two years earlier. Jarvis' mother had tried to establish Mother's Friendship Days as a way of dealing with the aftermath of the Civil War. Anna Jarvis began a campaign to create a national holiday honoring mothers. She and her supporters wrote to ministers, businessmen and politicians, and they were successful in their efforts.
In 1910, West Virginia became the first state to recognize the new holiday, and the nation followed in 1914 when President Wilson declared the second Sunday in May to be Mother's Day. Jarvis used white carnations as a symbol for mothers, because carnations represented sweetness, purity and the endurance of mother love. (Today, white carnations represent a mother who has died, while red carnations represent a living mother.)
Unfortunately, Jarvis became bitter over the commercialization of the holiday. She filed a lawsuit to stop a 1923 Mother's Day event and was even arrested for disturbing the peace at a mother's convention where white carnations were being sold. Jarvis never married and never had children. She died in 1948.
Mother's Day continues to be a very commercial holiday in the United States. Flowers, candy and cards are typical gifts, and phone traffic is especially high on the second Sunday in May.
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@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
21 Apr 07
Thank you for the info. If Jarvis thought mother day was bad she would have fit if she saw what had become of our Christmas celebration.
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@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
21 Apr 07
Oh indeed! I think you could say the same of all the holidays anymore! Ridiculous!
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
22 Apr 07
Thanks for sharing this history. I never heard about this history before today & i am glad to read it now. I'll simply like to say after reading all this "May our Moms remain on us for long time!!!!! May we all do maximum their respects!!!!!! May no one's Mom leave her son/daughter alone!!!!!! "
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@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Thanks for sharing. I'm lucky enough to have my mother local and I will be able to hand deliver anything I get for her. I used to ship my gram flowers every year though, until she passed.
@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
21 Apr 07
My kids know that I don't need to receive gifts on this day. My best days are those when the call me up from out of the blue just to see how I am doing. Honoring your mother should be done everyday. You needn't spend a lot of money to bring a smile to your mother's face. Just send her your love.
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@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
21 Apr 07
I agree... but I do think it's nice to put one day aside for her to make sure she gets treated like a queen. My mom always insists on making food for a picnic or whatever, forgetting that we are ALL moms and we should just go out! LOL
@jerryn (819)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Thanks for the history lesson.
I'm so blessed my mother is still living at 75 years old.
She takes a licking and keeps on ticking. She is a kidney transplant survivor for 6 years now, and is also a colon cancer survivor. I will always appreciate her nurturing love. She will definitely be hornored this Mother's Day.
@summergorgeous (674)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
thanks, i learned a new thing today. this info about mother's day is great especially now that mother's day is only a few weeks away. at least i know, why we need to celebrate mother's day aside from the fact that its the day we give love and apreciate all the things our mother had done.






