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myLot reputation of 98/100. carpenter5 (2217)   ranked 130 out of 32,948 in life 5 years ago

If you have a young person in your life, I'd like to share this with them.

This past Thursday, I watched over 500 young people file into a church sanctuary. Their faces were frozen with grief. Some were crying uncontrollably. Others were simply staring straight ahead, responding with a small nod or a soft word when they were spoken to. Arms around each other, heads on shoulders, hands clenched tightyly in fists.
They were saying goodbye to a friend whose life had been tragically, and quickly snuffed out.

All because of one lapse in judgement and the choices that followed.

She was 15 years old. Her name was Tasha. She was an honor student, and a gymnast. She was a cheerleader at her high school, and she competed with a local cheer squad, winning on the National level. She had a brother who said "she was the best sister a guy could have, but boy could we fight! But she always said I'm sorry...first. And I knew she loved me."
She had friends at school, friends at cheerleading, friends at church, friends at gymnastics class, everyone who came in contact with this young lady, was instantly blown away by her genuine honesty and love for life.
Last Sunday morning about 1 a.m. Tasha's love for life came to a screeching halt.
Her mom had to go out of town on business. Her grandmother came to the house to stay. Tasha took her mom's car, just after midnight and picked up two friends. An hour later, as a 15 year old boy drove, they hit the Mote Street Hill.

This particular hill has a dip at the bottom, and immediately goes back up into another hill. It's dangerous, and so many people have wrecked there over the last 50 years. There are signs that warn of the impending danger. When you go too fast, it's like a skateboard ramp when you get to the other side.
The police estimate they were going somewhere between 80-100 miles an hour. The car went airborne and landed against a tree on the passenger side, where Tasha was sitting.
She didn't die instantly. When neighbors who were just getting home from a graduation in another state got to the car, she was still alive, and screaming. They called 911 but knew that she wasn't going to make it because of the severity of injuries.
No drugs, no alcohol...just a joyride in Mom's car. Just having fun, because they were teenagers...and immortal.
Only Tasha wasn't immortal that night.
As an educator, I see it all the time. The chances the kids take. Playing chicken, going too fast, passing the car in front when there's really not room to get around before the car coming towards you gets there. And the latest...air surfing.
For those parents who don't know what that is. It's the passenger opening the door and standing on the running boards or the seat. holding onto the door and hanging their bodies out to "Surf". I was floored when I found out my 19 year old son had done that going down the road, while his friend was doing 30 mph. I praise God he didn't fall out. Other teachers tell me that the kids do it all the time now. They don't think anything can happen to them, because they're young...and immortal.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. lightningMD (5644)   ranked 577 out of 32,948 in life   5 years ago

We had the same type of accident happen in our town. There is a road that has huge hill and kids and even adults go flying down it. A girl from my daughters class was kileed when the hit a tree. The other girl is paralized for life. It is so sad when these things happen,things that could have been avoided. I know all teenagers think they are invinceable. Unfortunatley they are wrong.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. howellslj (1107)   5 years ago

I like to call it "lacking depth perception." I've noticed this while riding in the car with my youngest sister driving.

Thanks God your son is alive. I don't remember doing these things as a kid and it wasn't that long ago!

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. thai11 (217)   ranked 4,406 out of 32,948 in life   5 years ago

Sad story but the lesson is strong...young people do think they are invincible and that they know everything. I was one of those teenagers and I can look back now and see where God was on my side b/c I have put myself in very dangerous situations!! Unfortuantely, a lot of people have to "bump" their heads themselves to actually learn the lesson that so many others already know!!!!

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. suscan (1699)   ranked 4,094 out of 32,948 in life   5 years ago

What a tragedy. It is so scary that young people always think they are immortal and that at the moment the fun seeking is most important. I worked as a Ct Technologist for over 30 years. I have seen so many young people in accidents and it is heartbreaking.

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5. myLot reputation of 62/100. gewcew23 (5064)   ranked 1,197 out of 32,948 in life   5 years ago

Thank you for sharing this. I had never heard of this before. I am sorry to hear about the loss of such a young life. I pray for her family and her friends, and community. I pray that they will feel the comfort of the Lord.

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6. myLot reputation of 100/100. Sherry12 (1972)   ranked 129 out of 32,948 in life   5 years ago

Oh my goodness. What a tradgedy, that is so very sad.
I've never heard of the air surfing. I'm very glad to know as I have 2 teens and will be sure to talk to them about this and how dangerous it is.
Yes, kids do think that nothing can happen to them. Thanks for the information on the air surfing - that is serious stuff and the kind of things we parents need to be aware of.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. vmks31 (7459)   5 years ago

That is a tragic horrendous accident but as tear jerking as your post was it is not unusual That story could be the same for many countries and repeated several times Here in Canada alone last week 4 Teenagers Killed in Car Crash up north .......Two teenagers killed a railroad crossing at 3am(What are they doing out at 3am ) The story 80 an hour wow what were they doing ..this was an accident intersection they knew existed so i am not pointing blame nor make light of the tragedy but we reap sometimes what we asked for My prayers and sympathy go out to all involved in the tragedy but unfortunately it is not as rare as some may think Good Luck

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. villageanne (5891)   ranked 219 out of 32,948 in life   5 years ago

Oh my gosh. That is so sad and you wrote about it in a very compassionate and loving way. I think all teens think that they are above death. They tent to take way too many chances. We have lost teens in our community that thought the same thing only they were able to meet with death. It always seem to impact the other teens for awhile but after a while, they forget how it happened and they too get brave again. Really sad story. Thank you for sharing it whith me.

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35296)   ranked 26 out of 32,948 in life   5 years ago

How very sad for your whole community. I would venture to say that Tasha herself is hoping that others do not make her same stupid mistake, and that others learn from her lesson. I pray for peace for your community.

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10. myLot reputation of 85/100. oneandonemakesix (23975)   5 years ago

I am so saddened by this story, and hope pray that some good will come out of it.

As tragic that this is for the family and friends that knew the girl, I hope it teaches others that dangers of doing the same thing.

I witnessed when we owned a house, a teenager driving down the road, (downhill) with a kid on top of the car...

All I could do is pray that something didn't happen.

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