If you know that your best friend husband betray she, you will tell she?
By al87exa
@al87exa (720)
Romania
4 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
16 May 07
This is a very difficult situation to be in. Do you think she would tell you if she saw your husband with another woman? I know if it were me, I would tell her because she is my friend and that even though she doesn't believe me or she becomes angry with me, I want her to know regardless. I would just be very gentle with her and tell her that you saw him with another woman. My question is, what were they doing? Do you think it could have been a meeting or professional from work? Could it be someone they mutually know? Were they being affectionate in a way they shouldn't have been? There is so many questions. If you saw this man with another woman doing something that is wrong, then definitely tell her. She deserves to be happy, not to be cheated on.
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
8 Jun 07
Thanks for the best response rating. I hope that your friend found out the truth and you are still friends1
@sassinqueen (710)
• United States
8 Jun 07
This is not an easy situation to handle. This could lead to many things, including violence against one party or another. In college, myself and three others shared a townhouse. Three of us went to a concert one night and there was the boyfriend of the one left at home with someone else. Well, only one of us decided to tell her. And, after this fool discussed it with her boyfriend, she told me that it really was none of her business. Well, believe me, I told her a few things, including the fact that she was just too stupid to realize that someone had did her a kindness. I know quite a few women and men who are just stupid like that and the only result will be the ruining of your friendship. But, quite honestly. I am not looking for fools for friends.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
16 May 07
I would tell the husband that I know and I will tell him to come clean. i will give hima week to tell her and if he doesnt I will then tell her.
I really do not agree with cheating but it is better if it is coming from him then from me.
However I will not let him get away with it.
@jillhill (37353)
• United States
16 May 07
Never forget that they always kill the messenger! She probably wouldn't believe you anyway unless you had pictures. Reality bites. It's easier for her to forgive him then you. Depending on what your relationship is I'd maybe drop hints and lead the way for her to find out otherwise forget what you saw. For both of you.




