Would you mind if your boyfriend has a female best friend?
@lovelyladydancing (1016)
United States
7 responses
@happythoughts (4109)
• United States
16 May 07
I once had a friend or who I thought was just a friend. On dya he told me that he didnt think that guys and girs can be just friends and there will always be something there. I didnt think it was going that way but I guess he did.
I would be uncomfortable is my Husband had a girlfriend that he spent time with when I wasnt there. Not that I dont trust him, but as long as he doesnt get to many chances I feel better.
@lovelyladydancing (1016)
• United States
16 May 07
I know what you mean. You could totally trust your boyfriend, but what about his friend? She could be in love with him. And you never know what could happen.
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@taurean83 (505)
• United States
16 May 07
NO...I wouldn't mind if my husband has any best friend who is girl.Jealousy is natural thing which comes Its your possession towards your partner,but I think every relation has its own importance and its own place in someone's heart.If your partner has any female best friend ,Mind it she is only his friend.You should trust on your relation and him.Now it is his responsibility not to cross limits and be sincere with you.If she is his friend You are someone really special to him .I believe your place in his heart is where she can't stand and her place is different which you can't take so be confident on yourself,while jealousy is natural phenomena.It will come but you have to be confident upon you and your relationship.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
17 May 07
If they were already friends before me, it would be Ok, as long as I am being respected. I am easy to get along with. But if I can't get along with his friend that is a different story.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
16 May 07
I dont have a boygriend I have a husband and I wouldent mind if his best friend was a female. The reason is because I know where his heart lies and he comes home to me every night and sleeps in my bed with me. It wouldent bother me at all.
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@lovelyladydancing (1016)
• United States
16 May 07
Would you mind if he shares personal stuff with her about your marriage?
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@Candid_Ishida (659)
• United States
17 May 07
Personally, I think a person's significant other should BE his or her best friend. If you really love each other, then how could anyone know you any better?
The person I love will always be number one in my life above my other friends, and I would expect my friends to understand that.
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@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
29 Jul 09
im not comfortable with that situation..and i dont like it at all..temptations are always around..i want to spend his time with me rather than with her bestfriend..
it kinda insults me..though im his wife i can be his bestfriend too,why need to find other, that might cause problems and troubles in a relationship.
thats very disturbing.have a nice day!
it kinda insults me..though im his wife i can be his bestfriend too,why need to find other, that might cause problems and troubles in a relationship.







