On loving and letting go

There is no easy way of mending it. I believe that one cannot escape from the pain directly. You got to go through the process. One has to experience first the grief of losing and the loneliness of missing the person that broke your heart. There may be coping mechanisms like making yourself busy as you have mentioned and this could somehow help. Through it you may learn to realize that life will still be wonderful without that person. Until that time that you acquire strength to finally move on. And when that time comes, you can at least tell yourself that you are a wonderful person to have survived a heartache and will then ready to face life with a smile again. And when that same pain holds you again, at least you are strong enough to handle it.

When you have relationships with your significant other we are not spared from the pain of loving and getting hurt in the process. We break our hearts and sometimes we break our selves in the process. Its never a guarantee that after these things happen we are made whole again. Its a difficult but a process that we have to get through to move on and be better people in the end. I ahve never broken my heart before, but there were imes I thought it was broken, but only to find out it was just intact and very whole.

Time mends a broken heart. I know how painful it is when someone is broken-hearted. Sometimes it's difficult to handle the emotion we have for it. I guess it's natural to feel this way. It's for us if we will let our self be much affected or not. We should think that life must go on and we have to be strong as we go through it. In my case, I just keep myself busy with alot of things. I try to forget what happened. I know that someday I'll be able to survive.

That really hurts and really really hard to pass through it. There are a lot of things that we do a lot of things to forget the pain even just fo a while like keeping yourself busy, going out with friends, might be drinking (which is bad) and etc., but it will never go away until you have finally learn to let go and move on. I've had my own share of this painful part of life and i admit that i am weak, but I prayed so hard and realized that God is always there to listen to what my heart desired, which is to be healed and yes He drew a line for me to find the right person and finally I've learned to let go of the past, the wounds have healed and given myself the chance to fall inlove again... So if your broken right now, just pray for His guidance and pray and pray and pray... He'll know what to do with your aching heart. Hope this helps. Love is God's grace that is at work within us...God bless you always!

It's truly a tough time when one is facing such a heartbreak, not too easy to forget someone you love dearly and forget the past...but in order for us to move on and to start over again, we just need to face it's reality and the fact that love itself is not always end up a happy ending, so one must be practical enough and just letting those things go and move on to life that you deserved.

The best thing I learned about loving is letting go. I remember myself loving me as a person and my ex. The best thing about letting go is that you know both of you will leave a happy life in love. When I let go of a person, it did not mean that I was not in pain. But I was positively looking forward of our future that we'll be both happy. When I know the person I love and myself both can be happy apart, it made me more happier. I made prayers before breaking-up. It was a decision I made, and I asked guidance. After being so sad about it, the prayers healed my broken heart. I became whole again when my Lord granted me the gift of healing.