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 I have a question thats been bugging me.... I hope you could give me advice and feel free to share your ideas. Because when it comes to love i'm a bit afraid to take a risk and get hurt in the process, thats why i'm still single and unattached eversince. It's because of the things i hear and witness on the people that surrounds me, be it my family, friends etc... The situation is this, Why is it that when you're ready to experience things and try it out, something happens, just out of control it happens?
What is a forbidden love? How can you say that it's forbidden? Can you give an example? And if you think you're in that situation, how will you handle it? Are you willing to take the risk?
please bear with my questions, just really wanted to be enlightened... tnx!
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1.  emilieespino (664) | 1 year ago |  Getting hurt is all part of life and you should not be afraid. No guts no glory, so they say. Forbidden love is a situation like loving someone who is married to someone else or someone who is in love with somebody else. Or maybe somebody who has a different religion, or a close relative (like a cousin or an uncle).
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | thanks for the reply... it meant a lot. | |
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| 2. sunshinelady (4866) | 1 year ago |  Forbidden love would be being with a married man. Having a relationship with a brother or sister. It does happen. Having a relationship within the same family. If you never go out and love you are missing one of the most beautiful things on this earth. Yes, you might get hurt but that is all part of living. There are no guarentees in this life. I don't know who said this but I have heard a saying that is very true. Better to have loved and lost than not having loved at all. I have been married to my husband for 34 years soon to be 35 in August. Over the years we have had some pretty rough roads to travel at times. There was one time that we thought it was the end of the marriage but we just kept on struggling. Love is a emotion that has to be given freely and with the knowledge that the other person may not return it. Open up for a experience of a life time and you will never regret opening your heart.
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | thanks for the reply... and congrats on ur anniversary. | |
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3.  berlinlife (4370) | 1 year ago |  A life without risk, without love, without knowing what it is to feel pain because you love someone so deeply... is not worth living. Don't be afraid of getting hurt, because if it happens, only means that you got to experienced the REAL LOVE. Believe me, very few people get to have that kind of love, and you'll regret not being open to it before!
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | Thanks for ur advice... lightens me up. | |
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| 4. jillhill (5479) | 1 year ago |  I think forbidden love is when you fall for someone that is already taken or there is a conflict like being related. Run if you are in that situation. You are only asking for heartache and you deserve to have something that can be out in the open and a love you can enjoy!
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| 5. Wanderlaugh (1094) | 1 year ago |  Forbidden love is a contradiction in terms, as far as being in love is concerned.
As for getting hurt, don't worry about it. It's like being hit by a nuclear weapon, just more accurate. You don't get a choice.
It's almost the exact opposite of talking yourself into thinking you're in love.
So when I say "forbidden" love is a contradiction in terms, I mean it's something you really can't contradict, within yourself. You can't even argue with it. Anyone "forbidding" it is irrelevant, and not going to be considered, as far as what you do about it.
Enjoy!
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | Thanks... it's really hard fighting something you know you can't that you'd end up hurting inside but also the same with when you'd go with the flow... i think i'd have to think things over and over and over again... tnx! | |
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| 6. diansinta (3481) | 1 year ago |  i am not quite sure..
may be loving somebody that have somebody else, she already have husband and family.
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | Thanks... same as that but not in that situation. | |
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| 7. JcHitomi (89) | 1 year ago |  Forbidden love is when you involved in the situation that the other person has been committed to someone. Basically the common of this is when you are in love to married man. It is a situation that cannot be concluded for "forever thing". Its just love loving someone at the wrong time. Thats why when loving someone you indeed risking yourself and willing to accept the trials bec. of love and the question will you cope with it? are you willing? Its a choice if you continuing loving a person and should accept all the risk and consequences might happen. Thats love is, fighting back and holding it on. Though its hard, bec. when you chose to love a person you indeed chose to be hurt, theres only a saying that no once could you without your consent.
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | thanks for the response... i do agree with you, and taking a risk i don't think i am ready for it. but in due time i will find a better way for the both of us that no one can be hurt... or rather i'd be hurt than hurting the people around me. | |
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| 8. maple_kisses (386) | 1 year ago |  It is forbidden when it's against the law of the Almighty, it can be a romantic relationship between relatives of 1st or 2nd degree, it could be a relationship with a married person.. among others.
I am married but my husband and I separated ways 2 years ago. Now I'm living alone, though still legally attached. I was forbidden to have another relationship with other guys because I'm still married.. the problems is I fell in love with another guy, and I fell really deep. How I handled the situation? It wasn't simple, but it has to be done. I weighed things over my head. Which is more important? The guy's love? or God's love? I don't wanna lose God's love so I had to sacrifice my feelings for the guy, right? No, I didn't take the risk, I don't wanna risk it. I don't know what I'll do if God gets angry at me, the punishment will hurt....
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | Thanks for sharing... going against the laws of God and people is really hard. Thats what is happening to me right now, weighing things over and before it gets too far, i'd rather consider the downsides of my actions... so i'll just ask for HIS assistance in this matter. | |
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| 9. liranlgo (2854) | 1 year ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | I hope all people thinks like you in this matter, but unfortunately we're not alike. Anyway you are right about me having an internal war, it's myself that i'm having trouble with, asking why of all people it had to be him that i'd be inlove with even if we share the same feelings... for i know he too is asking himself that question. It's like i'm battling an invisible force that i know there'd be no winning yet i still fight it.
Right now the best way i'm doing is avoiding him without him not knowing it by busying myself with work and other things because you see it always happens that when i see him it seems that everything fades away... ohhh i don't like these kind of feeling but in the same time it feels good! I don't really know which way to choose... really i don't know! i'm trying to consider going faraway where i can't see him because i don't want to ruin everything in exchange for our happiness....
Thanks for your advice it really helps a lot... | |
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| liranlgo (2854) | 1 year ago | You are more then welcome.
Look if he is married and he does not having any intention
of leaving hi wife for you, then i suggest that you will take a nice vacation, get things cleared with yourself and when you come back just completely disconnect yourself from him. It is possible.
I am sorry that it turned this way to you, i do hope that everything will be fine. | |
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | I don't think i'd have that vacation again... it was where i met him, anyway he is not a married man, but more complicated coz we are related but before we knew we were related, cupid already hit us... clueless i guess.
So now you know it really isn't possible... so i just have to accept it and let go. Besides no damage was done, although it will leave a scar in our hearts, it's a part of life. Better to have loved than not at all, and be hurt to at the same time. This made me strong and when the time comes that i'm ready to face him it'll be just a memory that sometime in our past we have shared a love and let go for the betterment of all, most especially for us... When that day comes I will be the happiest person ever...(",)
Thanks again... really appreciate it!
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10.  wildcard07 (100) | 1 year ago |  i think it isn't love that you want; you have enough with your fam and friends. you are aiming for a commitment.
commitment is a big deal so you can't just jump in it, don't you agree? maybe that's why you're uncertain with it when the chance comes.
don't be afraid, coz it's the man's job to put away that fear. you just have to pray and wait.:)
pray to the lord and wait patiently that if it is His will for you to have a partner, then let him choose for you.;)
love (or i think you mean commitment) is forbidden in the terms of the world if people do not find it conforming to the standards of the society. commitment is forbidden for students who are too young and are not allowed by their parents. commitment is forbidden biblically if it involves of the same gender, man and beast, many partners, unfaithfulness, unmarried people...
hahaha
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| Mervz_82 (10) | 1 year ago | Thanks for ur response...
Commitment and Love go hand in hand... because when you commit to someone else it mean that you love him/her...i do agree with you that its a really tough decision, besides i know that there's someone for everybody that God destined for us. I can wait... | |
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