The day just started and I already need a nap! * yawn *

Canada
June 4, 2007 7:49am CST
I often don't get enough sleep. Sometimes it's due to work or someone being sick but, most times, it's because of my husband. He snores something fierce, so this often disturbs me, but he also talks in his sleep and used to sleepwalk. The sleepwalking really worried me when he was in the Navy and lived on a ship 24/7! Anyway, while he was in the service, he developed this "tendency" to jolt awake in his sleep, thinking that the rack (bed) above his was about to fall on him. He'd stand on the floor, staring at it, too afraid to get back in his own rack. Now, in the comfort of our own bedroom, he does this with the ceiling fan!! On numerous occasions, he's thrown off the covers and jumped to his feet, scaring me awake, thinking the fan is about to fall. I have to tell him "it's ok... just lay down" and he'll go right back to sleep like nothing happened. Other times, he's gotten up and headed for the bedroom door -- and then stopped dead in his tracks because he doesn't have a clue where he's going. I know I'm not the only one dealing with sleep problems in their spouse. I know, particularly with the snoring, that this could signal other health conditions and he's going to go for a thorough check-up for that -- but, on a day like today where it's not even 9AM and I'm dragging my feet to get my work going, does anyone feel like commiserating with me? LOL Please share your stories of sleep challenges and what your spouse puts you through... or, is it you that's the "active sleeper"? How do you handle things in the dark of YOUR nights??? :)
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@rhinoboy (2129)
4 Jun 07
It's children (or rather 'child') with me too. Our daughter decided that sleeping in our bed is much nicer than being in her cot, so she'll scream for hours until we give in. We're determined to break this little habit of hers, but at 4am on a work night we really don't want to spend an hour or two settling her down in the nursery. I also find that if she wakes in our bed before me, she likes to tweak my nipples / pull my chest hair / poke my ears & eyes etc. I don't think I'm coping too bady, but fear that I may become narcoleptic!
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• Canada
4 Jun 07
Oh rhinoboy! LOL! I'm not laughing AT you, I'm laughing WITH you... please believe me! LOL As I was saying above, I really relate to these responses because, like you, I never considered the wee hours of the morning to be a time that was condusive to having a reasonable "discussion" with a wailing child. I was lucky that both of my girls became better sleep companions than my husband currently is LOL I wonder if getting him a cot would be of any benefit??? *grin* Nice "seeing " you!! :)
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@rhinoboy (2129)
4 Jun 07
Apparently I snore too, so my wife suffers more than I do (she won't accept that she sometimes emits a 'lady-snore' too though!). We watched a TV documentary about people who's sleep was disturbed like your husbands is, and worse. Some people really freak out and fight etc during the night. I felt so sorry for the poor partners of these people as they risked a beating in their own beds every night. One poor guy lost his job because he couldn't function during the day due to the effects of the sedatives he needed to keep him still at night. You have my sympathies!
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
5 Jun 07
If I do not get enough sleep, it is because of myLot. lol. I stayed up past bedtime to post responses. I am a good sleeper. Once I fall into sleep, nothing can wake me up. I wake up automatically when the time is up. The challenge I faced is my subconscious mind which enjoys determining what time is wake up time, which is sometimes wrong.
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• Canada
5 Jun 07
LOL!! I think we've all been sleep deprived one time or another because we've spent too much time online :) I envy you being such a sound sleeper. Unfortunately, my husband can also be that way -- when he's not up and walking around or talking or what have you LOL While he's snoring away, he's out like a light. We can have lights on, tv going, conversations flying in all directions and he'll sleep through all that. Good thing I guess since his job requires that he go to bed earlier than anyone else in the family and then get up around 3AM. sighhhh.
• United States
4 Jun 07
Well, my hubby snores on occassion but I just give him a nudge and he stops, LOL. My bigger problem is my kids. They tend to wander in and end up in our bed in the middle of the night and I get whacked in the head by a foot or an arm whenever that happens. Either that or I'm hanging off the edge of the bed while they take up the whole middle. Yes, I have been living on no sleep since the year 2000....
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• Canada
4 Jun 07
Oh poor you!! LOL I understand what you're going through... my first daughter tried to get into our bed for awhile too... and since we only had a double, there was just about enough room for me and the hubby and that was IT LOL So, after hanging off the edge, as you said, I told her she just had to sleep in her own bed or Mommy was going to be rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreally crabby every day. I guess she weighed her options and made the right choice ha! Thanks for your response!!