Do you personally follow the stereotype of your nation?  |
|
Well this isn't actually stereotype. I couldn't think of the right word but I thought it would give you the general idea of what I was meaning before opening the discussion.
I am Scottish and we are very known for having short arms and long pockets. We try our best not to pay for stuff and are always looking for a little freebie.
The thing though I was actually thinking of though is that the Scottish, by actual statists are not complainers. If something upsets us and we are either being mistreated or ripped off then we as a whole say nothing and just get on with it. Against other nations we will be the ones that get skipped in queues, get served bad food, get over charged and under changed but yet we will more often than not be the one to apologise. I suppose this really isn't a good image for us.
Anyways, I must say, if I think I am being wrongdoed then I will say, in fact I wouldn't even take a gasp before launching into my complaint and normally will make it a formal one.
I was brought up by a strong single mother (strong in mind, not just arms!) so she has alwasy taught me to stand up for myself. We had quite a tough upbringing in the sense that we had very little and I have watched us grow in wealth by my mother being "one to say something"
I never have any hesitation in phoning to complain regarding something I have been sold, returning stuff to shops, complaining about service, etc.
I am not a nasty person but I always think that I should get what I am entitled to and people shouldn't try and take advantage of the smaller person.
I look forward to seeing your responses regarding either complaing or what your nation is known for.
| |
| |
|
|
| | Curves Read reviews for this business wit directions, offers and more. Washingtondc.Citysearch.com
| Washington Nationals Baseball Team 2008 Season souvenirs for all Nationals baseball fans are here now. www.capitolshoppingmall.com
| WA Appraiser School Get Your Appraisal License Today. DETC Nationally Accredited. www.RealEstateLicense.com
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | I am actually veyr much the same. I never really had much respect for the incrowd or for fashion or anything that was classed as cool.
Growing up I always had friends who were not so socially accepted but at the time did not realise because they were basically my friends. It just so happened that these were all people who distanced themselves from what was in probably more through force than choice.
| |
|
|
lilaclady (19664) | 3 years ago | yeh I think the incrowd people didn't impress me very much anyway as they were like sheep anything that was the in thing was the cool thing to do, I did my own thing I guess I liked to me an individual or maybe unique hahahaha....
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Do you know what I used to call it. "Individualistic!" I even made up my own term for being an individual. I love to against the grain and have always secretly relished in being a shocker.
| |
|
|
lilaclady (19664) | 3 years ago | yep I am with you nothing better than being you...and not just to follow cool... we are two of a kind...:)
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Ummm....are we allowed to say we are the same when we strive so much on being different.
| |
|
|
lilaclady (19664) | 3 years ago | oh dear, I think 90% of people are really like sheep like one of my friends, enen in the way of movies, when a movie gets a great review then she alwayds thinks it is great, now I grew up with this girl and I know her well, but years up the track she forgets and it was just because it was the IN movie to rapt about, if I see a movie and i think it is crap then I say it is crap regarless of the reviews and awards, same as smoking I was the only one in my group thar didn't smoke, I may have looked uncool in their eyes but I think I was the smart unique one...in little ways I was always upfront and true to my own thoughts and not a slave to fashion and trends, I look back and now think I was the cool one..:)
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Do you want to know something really sad that you will apreciate.
My sister made a scrap book of Sienna Miller that she used to take shopping on the high street to try and copy her outfits
| |
|
|
lilaclady (19664) | 3 years ago | Oh dear, there again I have my own fashion as well, I wear what takes my fancy a bit of and a bit of that and I reckon I have my own fashion, I am me.
| |
|
|
|
Curves Read reviews for this business wit directions, offers and more. Washingtondc.Citysearch.com | add comment |
|
|
|
2. rosie_123 (3858) | 3 years ago | Hmmm - well I am English so I guess that means you must hate me! LOL! No - seriously - not sure if I fit a "stereotype" - my Mum was Belarussian for a start, so I suppose I am pretty mixed up anyway - but if I'm honest I suppose I do fit some English stereotypes. I'm very reserved for a start - not shy at all, but just not the kind of person who starts up conversations on trains or buses - I prefer to keep mtself to myself. Also - I hate "scenes" and anything that draws attention to me in public. I would never, ever complain in a restaurant for example, and I get really embarrassed by fighting, loud voices, rows in public etc - and I would rather die than be involved in a "scene". Mass hysteria or anything "over the top" scares me, - I guess I'm your typical Brit who sits in the crowd at Wimbledon quietly saying "C'mon Tim" to Tim Henman and never shouting, screaming or losing control! LOL! Oh - and I almost certainly prefer animals to people - so yes - I stand up and admit that I am a stereotypical, snobbish, English, former private schoolgirl!!!!
| |
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Lol even the fact that you like tennis makes you so English. I personally don't understand tennis and think that Wimbledom is just daft lol. But that is me being Scottish and thinking that anything that is aimed at the English is rubbish. Lol. Only kiddin!
I don't actually hate the English at all but get me drunk and I can sit and tell you how much better Scotland is than England even although I know nothing about politics or economy or nothing. I just like being patriotic. Lol.
I love scenes actually and I love creating them, Im one of these people that push people too far but I am sure you are well aware of this already.
| |
|
|
rosie_123 (3858) | 3 years ago | LOL! Tennis is the only sport I enjoy. I go everywhere to watch it - not just Wimbledon! It isn't necessarily an Englsh sport though - the best players, and majority of fans worldwide, are generally from Spain or South America! And glad you don't hate me really, eve though I am a Sassenach!!
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | But I still do enjoy hating your country as a whole. Lol.
| |
|
|
|
Washington Nationals Baseball Team 2008 Season souvenirs for all Nationals baseball fans are here now. www.capitolshoppingmall.com | add comment |
|
|
|
3. fizzytom (436) | 3 years ago | Until the other day I did not think I was typically British but i was at a foreign airport and people started pushing in (not British people) when the flight was announced and I got really annoyed.
It was then i realised I'm more British in attitude than I like to admit. I definitely have that British thing about queuing etiquette - I often think British people see a queue and join it regardless of whether they know what is at the end of it.
| |
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | I know!
British queue even whether the place we are in has implemented a queueing system. Even if we don't like to admit the british queue at a bar just by keeping an eye on who they are behind and when someone doesn't obey that everyone gives a tut.
I think it is funny how many places we have put up barriers and whathave you just to make sure we all know about the queueing system. Just like our driving too. We all feel that at junctions there are queues of who is to go first even although in Europe they just go by the fattest is first.
| |
|
|
fizzytom (436) | 3 years ago | In Cuba they don't queue in line, they just stand all over the place. But what they do is when they arrive somewhere like a bus stop or the bank, they say "El ultimo?" meaning "Who is the last one?" and that person makes themselves known, and so on. So you know the person just before you and thenext person knows the person before them. Looks like there isn't a queue at all but it does work.
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Oooh I like that idea of El Ultimo!
Funny thing is that here no one queues up to get the bus and if any of us do then some foreigners comes and skips us all. In the city I am in we have alot of people over hear seeking sanctuany or looking for work so they don't follow the same system as they were brought up differently.
| |
|
|
|
WA Appraiser School Get Your Appraisal License Today. DETC Nationally Accredited. www.RealEstateLicense.com | add comment |
|
|
|
4. mssnow (4138) | 3 years ago | I guess the typical American (from others point of view) is a person who uses a lot of credit card sand has money to spend. A nice home 2.5 kids. A new car or mini van etc. Thats not me at all. I am one of the por Americans. The one who struggles daily to keep my head above water. But i do say my piece when need be. I don't depend on men to get what I need. I am very independant.
| |
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | To tell you the truth the way I perceive the Americans is by being very loud and demading but this is just from what I have seen in the movies!
| |
|
|
|
Get Help Moving Your Stuff Movingorbit offers free competitive price quotes for local and long distance moves, international relocation and auto shipping. Fill out one simple form and we will contact you. www.movingorbit.com | add comment |
|
|
|
5. urbandekay (4295) | 3 years ago | Well, stereotype sounds an appropriate enough word to me, though you might have used archetype.
Well, that came as a shock to me that Scots don't stand up for themselves, that's not the impression I had but there you go.
Anyway, good on you!
all the best urban
| |
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | And what about you you horseriding English gentleman!
| |
|
|
urbandekay (4295) | 3 years ago | he he he he he he he he he
Excellent! I wonder what the rich horse riders think of us, I always ride with the grooms and other peeps that work with horses. I really hate the snoby element in it though. A lot of grooms and stable workers I know are passionately anti-hunt, course they often can't admit that to the stuffed shirts and the like. They usually tend to be better riders and care more about the horses welfare than their owners.
all the best urban
| |
|
|
|
Free DC Dating Personals No credit card required; email local singles for free. www.SinglesNet.com | add comment |
|
|
|
6. gardengrrl (841) | 3 years ago | Unfortunately, Americans have got ourselves the image of being large, loud, selfish bigots and xenophobes - not to metion politically retarded!
So, how do I stack up? I am large, but I'm only loud when necessary, not too often. I understand that living in one of the richest countries in the world give us a certain obligation to the poorer ones, although the way we currently go about giving aid is not too satisfactory. I express these things to my elected representatives. I'm neither bigoted nor xenophobic - I'm active in seeking a just solution to the immigration issue, not the retarded, illogical rhetoric being spouted by both extremes.
I guess I'm pretty far from the "average" American - but that's a good thing, in my book!
| |
| |
|
|
gardengrrl (841) | 3 years ago | Oh, yeah - I didn't vote for President Dumbass, either, twice!
| |
|
|
|
Curves Read reviews for this business wit directions, offers and more. National.Citysearch.com | add comment |
|
|
|
7. oneandonemakesix (24038) | 3 years ago | I'm loud mouthed and obnoxious, I'm not afraid to speak my mind to a pastor or to anyone else, and I will in no uncertain terms tell someone where they can go how they can get there, what they can do to themselves on the way there, and what they can do to themselves when they get there.
I guess I can say I fit right in with ahlf of the Americans ehre.
Mooch
| |
| |
|
|
|
Washington Nationals Gear Shop for Washington Nationals Kitchen Items at the Yahoo! Sports Shop. YahooSports.TeamFanShop.com | add comment |
|
|
|
8. Stiletto (3180) | 3 years ago | I would say I fit with the Scottish stereotype to some extent - I certainly like a drink although I'm not "careful" with money at all. Quite the opposite in fact because I waste it all the time! Oh and I love seeing the English get beaten at any sport but football's the most satisfying one. I think that has something to do with the commentators though. As for complaining I don't suffer in silence if I think I'm being mistreated or ripped off although I used to put up with a lot more when I was younger.
Actually what you said about your mother raises one of the least acknowledged aspects of Scottish culture and that's strong women. When I think back to my childhood all the people that stand out as strong characters for one reason or another were women - whether it was female family members (and some of mine were nuts!) or just women that lived locally. We Scottish women don't take sh1t off anyone lol!!
| |
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Stiletto I have something to tell you that will appaul you.
I thought you were English and the amazing thing is I liked you too.
I really thought that Haddington was in England.
Hmmm....well that shut me up!
| |
|
|
Stiletto (3180) | 3 years ago | Noooooo!! Consider me appalled!!! Haddington is about 18 miles from Edinburgh.
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Yeah well I thought it was in England.
I was on my way to barcelona once on the plane and still thought I was heading to the bermuda triangle area. I was quite disappointed when I realised it was in Spain.
Right Im off out now.
| |
|
|
Stiletto (3180) | 3 years ago | pmpl!! Have a good time.
| |
|
|
|
Mother's Day Jewelry Find elegant, unique Mother's Day jewelry in & near Washington DC. Jewelers.YellowPages.com/DC | add comment |
|
|
|
| 9. xquisite (99) | 3 years ago | i'm japanese and i'm pretty much an asian woman stereotype...i wear size 0 and got good grades in school, i'm shy and giggle a lot...ya. (but no, i dont play any musical instruments and i'm not a math person;)
| |
| |
|
|
|
Washington Nationals Baby Kid Clothing Shop online at babysport.com & FREE shipping on orders $99 or more. www.babysport.com | add comment |
|
|
|
10. ptrikha1 (4115) | 3 years ago | Hi, I am not sure If you have an Indian Stereotype . There are a few images - good as well as bad that are of an Indian - One is Loudmouthed,Illiterate, poor, Unhygienic one; stepped in poverty and hunger. Another one is of an intellectual with great Technical,managerial or Administrative capability who can rise to the occasion and work his or her way out of difficult situations.
Then there is the "Stereotype" of a Family Man or Woman committed first of all to the family and for whom Job or Career comes second.
Another "Stereotype" and increasingly so is someone like Dhirubhai Ambani or NRIs like Lakshmi Niwas Mittal or Ratan Tata who have through Vision,Hard work and Daring erected Huge empires in Business and are the Indian MNCs . ( or simple MNCs) . They have created wealth not only for themselves but also for their employees .
And in between these Stereotypes are people like me - who try to carve out their own identity- Through Daily struggle; whether in Traffic Jams,Bill Payment Queues, racking out Brains or sweating out at workplace, but still managing to live a life which is better than many of our ancestors .
Sorry for getting a bit carried away . But dear Mylottians, please forgive this emotional guy if anything hurt you here.
| |
| |
|
|
ptrikha1 (4115) | 3 years ago | And I do follow one more stereotype: love for cricket .
| |
|
|
killahclaire (1711) | 3 years ago | Lol the love of cricket is a true stereotype for your country adn you are good at it too. Well I don't know if you personally are but your country is!
| |
|
|
|
Single Mother College Scholarship Register To Win a $10,000 College Scholarship For Single Mothers. Scholarship-Source.net | add comment |
|
|
|
| | Get Help Moving Your Stuff Movingorbit offers free competitive price quotes for local and long distance moves, international relocation and auto shipping. Fill out one simple form and we will contact you. www.movingorbit.com
| Free DC Dating Personals No credit card required; email local singles for free. www.SinglesNet.com
| Curves Read reviews for this business wit directions, offers and more. National.Citysearch.com
|
|
|
|
|