my granny is smart in the old ways

my granny tell me about the old ways good and bad. she tell me never hit your woman. in old days she tell me that woman with black eye learn something new. woman with two black eye is bad wife she need to be told twice. my gran says this no longer happen here in england. this is good. why would discipling woman happen now? no need. people are all good now and love one another. my gran is a brave woman.