On second thought...
By juliefaye
@juliefaye (1214)
Philippines
August 4, 2007 11:35am CST
It's past midnight here and i can't sleep, still thinking things happened to me here a few days ago. Those filthy tags on my discussions are still on my mind as it humiliates me. I know God won't give us things that we can't bear. He sent me ANGELS from heaven to cheer me up and i was overwhelmed with kindness showed by them.
Just passing by to thank GOD's Angels: Gabs (you're one of a kind), Icca my friend, Manong Ryan, Sue (cremechese you're great), Katlady2, Kayrod2, carolscash, Rosie_123, Everlasting, JBRulez, Tammyr, royal52gens, hip2bemom, Mooch (sorry for the others that i forgot to mention - God knows who you are)
On second thought, these things happened because God wants me to be acquainted with real good people, to be in a company of good friends and there were lots of them here. Whatever the admin's reason of deleting my discussions, i don't care now much less on my star rating. I may not earned a star but i can proudly say that i earned loads of wonderful friends here!
To you who put demeaning tags on my discussion -- i know you still follow me.. i'll pray for you.. to find your peace of mind.
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10 responses
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Yes, everything has it's own purpose. Consider these things as challenges to test your being a true person, then leave them in your past to continue living your life in the future.
I saw that disucssion of gabs, that's how I got tangled with your post and saw the offensive tags personally. As of now, many are still violating mylot's guidelines. I just wish that those I've reported get banned as soon as possible, as we don't want to happen again what have happened to you.
I don't know what discussion of your's got deleted, but I do hope that you not take it seriously. I'm sure the admin do have their own good reason about it, your star rating is what bothers me somehow. I hope that they give it to you very soon, because you deserve to have one!;)
BTW an off topic question: I believe you're also from Bacoor, I live near SM..
@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
5 Aug 07
The deleted discussion was about the abusive tags. I read it when it was up, but when it was still in existence, there were some nasty tags that got added to that one as well.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Thanks for the clarrification, we all know that these deletions comes way beyond our expectations!;)
Yeah! I know Queensrow, I have some friends and high school classmates there. I live near SM Bacoor, as I thought you are just live around this place too!;)
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Thanks raijin..you're still awake! my post which the admin deleted is about those tags. so instead of deleting filthy tags, they delete my post.
I leave near SM Molino in Queensrow to be exact. Thanks for responding i have to sleep my daughter is worried about eyebags as she can't sleep without me on her side LOL.
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
5 Aug 07
OK - I'm done with hiding out & sneaking around MyLot. I believe I know who it was, or at least, who I started it. BTW - I was the one who asked a friend (Not mentioning who, for privacy sake) to send you the message asking the questions about who it might have been.
My UN-certain conclusion - from what I understand - was that (from the friend(s) that helped pass along messages) it started in a political debate that got ugly. There were traces of comments were deleted by a MyLot moderator or admin in that discussion. I can only see what I can see, but as for the complete loss of your star, it looks like the culprit had help in bringing down your star rating so low that the star completely vanished. I cannot remember who originally said this in another discussion, but that person is right.
Either way, it is people like that who are driving away a lot of good people, bringing down the earnings, bringing down site morale, & basically, a waste of MyLot server space.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Aug 07
Krazy dear Friend thank you for helping me on this one again
I really appreciate your Help and Judgment on things and I knew you would help me solve this as long as we where patient
A big Hug to you dear Friend
Julie here is my Helper who helped and got things sorted so he deserves a big Thank you to Sweetheart
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
Thanks a lot Krazy.. the three of you are wonderful people, you helped me a lot to look things in a positive way. Maybe if i cannot return the favor to you my dear friends..i would pass that kindness to other mylotters here.
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
yes Sue..Maribel is on my friends list. I would be very glad to accompany you when you visit here!
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@tammyr (5945)
• Etowah, Tennessee
5 Aug 07
If we keep pm-ing adm. maybe they will delete them. It took a while for the last ones to be removed. Just look at it as maybe they are trying to trace who it was and if they delete them that info will not be there.
You are very welcome for our help. Most of us have seen this before when our friends had them on their threads. Vile things where used then also.
I think paths cross for a reason also. We will learn our purpose with time. Blessing to you!=o}
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
They are deleting it one by one maybe a little more time to finished it all. I think too that it happened for a reason..I'm just glad that there were people like you who don't hesitate to help.
Thanks again tammyr!
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@superchook (1786)
• Australia
4 Aug 07
It's a bit hard not to take it personally with some of those tags that were there. I am just glad they have taken them away now. I hope it doesn't happen again to you.
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@superchook (1786)
• Australia
4 Aug 07
Sorry I was wrong and they still haven't taken those tags away. How can they not take them away? That makes no sense. I hope they do soon for you.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
5 Aug 07
hi juliefaye, that's a positive attitude i like in you my friend, you are a strong woman of substance. as i have responded to your discussion earlier, i made mention that the day would come for these 'abusive' members to finally face their expulsion or suspension. hopefully mylot would try to look the issue on both sides. i was greatly affected by the deletion of one of your discussions, not only my points dropped but the intention to help you through or the support i was giving you was totally ignored.
anyhow, let's just think of good things starting today. just go on with your normal routine and continue being a kind-hearted person to both your enemies and friends. as Matthew 4:55 says, "But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;"
@tammyr (5945)
• Etowah, Tennessee
7 Aug 07
I didn't see any on spy's profile now. I sent a pm and got a reply very quickly back saying that it had been taken care of and thank you, and the like.
I see however that you still suffer the plight.
I am do a more detailed list and will send it shortly. I also found a couple of no responses. I gave an answer to them while I was there.
I agree that the best thing to do is pray for them, ryanphil01, I have noticed julifaye said that she would too!
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
Manong! you know how i trust you and Icca (jdpartosa) as i came to both of you the first time i saw those filthy tags. I really appreciate your words of wisdom and it makes me strong enough to ignore it, but it became more abusive the next time around. I plan to keep silent about it at first as i don't want to create friction here. Somehow i changed my mind and came out starting a discussion about it, to finally stop it. My friend spyjob had the same tagging, I don't want to see more victims of verbal abuse here.
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
yes, he sent me a PM saying that we have the same attacker because we bumped the same person. He rarely visit this site because of his job but still suffers the same humiliation. I think he does'nt mind it all..you know military man has a strong stomach ha ha ha!
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@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
4 Aug 07
I don't know what you mean by putting filthy tags on your discussions. I guess I should look but I didn't think mylot would let anything go that didn't match what the discussion was about. I know I've put some tags that they didn't think were relevant and they weren't even nasty. Have you alerted admin. about this?
@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
4 Aug 07
Just to prove a point I put the word "cat" in my tags and it didn't show up so the words they use must be relevant to the discussion.
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@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
4 Aug 07
Ok, I'm sorry about that. I should have looked before I spoke. Your right and I can see why they got through. The smartass used your name and that's how they got through. Either he was banned or he just left. Please forgive my first and second posts...I'm not generally dumb!
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@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
4 Aug 07
I cannot say that I know you, you are obviously new, and I do not think that I have ever replied to any of your threards. As for putting bad things on tags, I do not believe that I do. Another I ask is that you not take things on here personally, some people on the web can be idiots sometimes. I am not saying all people are idiots, just a few. Online, people can do anything, and they can be anything. Those who know that take advantage of it. Understand that some people around here live by certain codes, and some people are total rogues. Unpredictability runs rampant around here.
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
I see..while we cannot avoid bumping each other here, i don't take it personally as each of us had diff views in life. Immature people which i guess are very few here pull us down to get even. They will reap what they had planted.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Aug 07
Sweetie thank you I am just so glad that we could help you
It took a little while but we got there in the End Sweetie
And we will be behind you all the way now and you will get your Star back Sweetheart it will take time but you will
Love and Hugs to you
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
Thanks again gabs..maybe these things happened for us to cross our paths. More hugs to you and stay sweet.
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
I conclude that way also mummymo. People who have bitterness in life and is not happy tend to do foolish things, dragging people around so they will not be alone in despair. It takes a lot of guts to bring miseries to anyone especially in this friendly site. I just hope that it won't happen again to anyone here.
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@applecartronnie (1984)
• India
4 Aug 07
hey you sound like a great person, whoever you are what ever you do remember that people are really not to be trusted unless they are believers. keep your dreams and faith in god almighty and remember how so ever much anyone wants the believers to suffer, in anyway, GOD will cut them short in their path. be happy always. trust 100 and 1 percent only in GOD and HIS mercies. be happy always.
love, shariq.
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
Thanks for your kind words Shariq, i need that!
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