Would you plant a spy-cam in your house to spy on your boyfriend or husband?  

If I was to do that I had to be suspicious of something already, and if I were suspicious I would try to confront my husband or boyfriend before. If I planted a spy cam and if I saw something I would have to say to the person what I have seen.

I would be ashamed of confessing what I have done, even if he was the wrongful person.

People who do not have any reason to usually do not go to these extremes..unless they are, as you say, insanely jealous with no reason to be..As a woman who has been cheated on and didn't realize it for 2 years until it was the joke of the town..I do wish I had thought of doing that..it would have saved me the embarrassment of everybody knowing but me! I was going around being very smug about my absolute faithful husband and "happy" 10 year marriage when in the meantime they all knew he was cheating on me with my "best friend" for 2 years already...

I can't imagine spying on my husband like that. I wouldn't have married him if I didn't trust him. I'd really rather just believe that he's faithful and trust him than go around worrying about it all the time. I've never understood people who spent all their time worrying about whether their spouse is faithful. Either they are or they aren't, and nothing you can do is going to influence it either way. I think if you really have that much mistrust, either there is something wrong with you mentally, or you really shouldn't be with the person you are with.

If I was that convinced my partner was cheating, I'd say my relationship was pretty much gone already. If you can't trust your partner, then really it's not much of a relationship. And if my partner ever planted a camera to try to catch me doing something wrong, I'd leave him immediately. It's a violation of your privacy & if my word/commitment isn't good enough for him, to h*ll with him!

No--- If I thought he was cheating I'd ask- I cant imagine hiding a camera- I imagine there are people that do this though- I have watched that show a couple of times and it is funny of course not for either party involved but funny to watch!

If I ever thought that my boyfriend/husband was cheating on me I would never use a spy-cam for proof. They say that you need to go with your gut and for me I would confront him about it and then get myself out of the situation.

I still believe in trusting our loved ones. But when us girls are really bugged by our intuition, I'll say it's worth it..hehehe

i love that show when i'm able to find it. but i'll only do that if i have logical reasons to. since i'm the one home all day and he's hardly by himself at home, i'd basically be spying on myself..lol but if i feel threated or something like that, i'll probably place a hidden camera.

I have never seen that show in the 1st place. If I had someone who was always worried that I was cheating on someone when I wasn't, I don't know if I'd want to keep the relationship going. To me, it wouldn't be worth it. As a guy, I know I can speak for myself and say I'd be hurt about that.

I wouldn't because I would like to believe I can trust my girlfriend. I would hope not to have that happen to me at all. It can cause problems, as far as how much, couldn't tell you for sure.

yea i would