Do we REALLY learn lessons from our mistakes:--(?

Yes! we really learn lessons from our mistakes.But you can only learn from a mistake after you admit you've made it.As soon as you start blaming other people,you distance yourself from any possible lesson.But if you courageously stand up and honestly say''this is my mistake and i am responsible'' the possiblities for learning will move towards you.Admission of a mistake,even if only private to your self,makes learning possible by moving the focus away from blame assignment and towards understanding.Wise people admit there mistakes easily.They no prgress accelerates when they do.
trhanks and may god bless you SUBATHRA

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Hi Subathra and god morning.

I think you are right. I started surfing for ways to earn some money on Internet. Mainly to have something to do with my Internet and computer. I pay a lot for broadband, and do not think I only should pay my bills for that. I saw a lot of sites that promised your dreams come true and lots of earnings but most of them charged fees. However my sense told me to be ware. I put my efforts and surfed more. Until I did found a way to really make some money. Best part it did not cost me anything. I do get paid from my sites and it is free money. My pay pal account are growing and I will not use it yet. I do not know what I should do with it yet.

But I do realize that people are talked by the sites they do see. And truly I think they do believe what they read. So of course when lots of sites are promising the dreams coming true people sign in before they do think it over. I never signed in to anything that cost. I would not even consider it. And can not afford it. But I think people´s dreams are so strong and their believes in others are so strong that they tend to stop thinking.

Therefore I believe many do the same mistake over and over on line in their hope to make an easy and rich life on Internet.

i try to but i hv observed in my case it takes time for me to really learn and not to do it again,good discussion subathra

yes, based from expereriences i learned from my mistakes. i am more careful now and aware. but i see people i knew who never learns and keeps on making mistakes over and over again.

One of the best proof that you learned your lesson from the mistake is that you didn't do it again repeatedly.

From all the mistakes we did, we learned the things to make us wiser, mature, and know what's the best and differentiate between what's right and what's best to do. The right thing we did will not always be the best, but the best we did will always be the right. So, do your best in everything and even though you are wrong, you will admit it and willingly learn from your mistake. For example like the scammers you met.

Probably you have know the risk that it might be a scam, but still what we think we do right is not appear to be the best thing for us, right? But if you are sure about something, give your best shot because you will know it was a right thing to do. Someday even though it turns out to be a mistake, you will willingly to learn and accept the fact that you are wrong.:)

Do the best everyday. That's my basic key of learning from my mistakes.:)

Once bitten twice shy. So goes the adage. I too was taken for a ride not only half a dozen times in the internet. It is the cool and flashy words I was taken for the ride. Now I should have learnt from the 1st mistake itself that I should not have paid the money to internet. But I went on paying for the 2nd, 3rd and 4th. 5th time it was on a recommendation of my friend, the amount was small. That is also gone. Last time, (6th) I paid to a chinese firm (which had a account in ICICI bank where the amount has to beremiited. I did it and it is gone for ever. Now even if the site owner is my friend and asks for money, I will not budge, even if it is genuine site. So it happens in life - the desire to have money - greediness you cancall - made us commit the same mistake over and again. I was told by an elderly person, that sometime the fate blindfolds us and we do not see it as wrong while doing so. Anyhow, to conclude one should not make the mistake particularly of the same type. If this is followed, one can save one's skin.

We should learn from our mistakes,that's the greatest thing we could get from that so I hope we all do. But you know people differs,some repeat the same mistakes over and over again and never learn a thing..which is sad, this not refers only to scamms or paid sites but life in general,sometimes even in relationship..

like in love,..In my own experience,I learned it the hard way,you know,hurting my self without knowing it over an over again just by letting this person do that to me..but in the end,I was able to learned and eventually found happiness.

i guess this is human nature,like one of my friends said,you can't learn a lesson unless it carves in your heart.some people dont learn it from their mistakes,maybe because they didnt feel pain severely.that's just my wonder.
i've made the same mistakes before,i didnt avoid it because i didnt keep it in my mind,so when next time,again.if one day something cost me a lot,i will never do it again,and maybe then i will regret why i made that mistake.

Yes we all do learn from our mistakes....but not all the time..sometimes we just keep repeating and repeating it without reason.....this is where we all fail.We must use our errors as learning experiences instead of taking it agaisnt ourselves

Mistakes are meant to show us that what we have done is wrong .It is always good to learn from our mistakes and to bear in mind not to repeat such actions.

But very often human mind does not want to see reason and will go on repeating mistakes. This is the reason amrriages and other relationships fail again and again for some people.
Another option open to us is to learn from another person's mistake. But some people fail to make use of such oppurtunities also.......