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myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse 5 years ago

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This is really sad. In a nutshell, a married couple with medical backgrounds (Thomas Boettger is an EMT, and his wife, Lorrie, is a midwife) routinely drugged their six month old baby boy with Benadryl and Unisom tablets and God knows what else to get him to sleep at night and during nap time. Apparently the baby was given the medicine regularly so he wouldn’t fuss and stay up

 

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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. TeresaK (8081)   5 years ago

Unfortunately, this is something of a common practice. I know of several parents who give Benadryl to their children every night so that they will sleep through the night. They don't seem to understand that THIS is what could happen at any given time. This little guy should have had a long, happy life.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

I woul never drug my kids for a few hours of sleep. My sister used to give her son nyquil.

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2. myLot reputation of 78/100. suspenseful (19610)   ranked 24 out of 83 in child abuse   5 years ago

The poor little baby! You do not give drugs to a baby unless a doctor tells you to. I hope the courts give them the maximum. The drugs built up in the baby's system until he died.

Look I do not have a medical background and even I would not go on the internet and give a baby anything that is potentially dangerous. When you have a baby, you expect the baby to be fussy, cry a lot, especially if you do have a medical background and there are thousands of couples who cannot have children of them own. This makes me sad!!


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

It is very sad indeed.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. Laurla98 (529)   ranked 41 out of 83 in child abuse   5 years ago

Thats horrible. I had someone make a comment like that to me once. He's fairly young and has no kids and was completely joking. But it irritated me. I told him I couldn't go to a late night training because there was no one to watch my daughter. He told me to give her half a prozac and that would knock her out. I told him he shouldn't even joke about stuff like that. I think every parent would admit that when their kids are sick and screaming or won't quiet down, its nice when their medicine kicks in and they quiet down...but I would never give it to them unless they were really sick. I can't believe parents would do that purposely.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

I know is a sad and scary thought.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. Thoroughrob (9552)   ranked 1 out of 83 in child abuse   5 years ago

Why do people do things like that knowing that it is harmful. I do know that we had a daycare here that was shut down for doing the same thing. It is sad that they felt they needed to do this and in return no longer have a son. They really should have known better.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

Yes they should have known better.

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5. moxalot (92)   ranked 40 out of 83 in child abuse   5 years ago

That is so sad.

Something like that happened out here. A couple in the medical profession forgot their baby in the car. She passed away...

Poor babies...


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

How do you forget a baby? Yes it is very sad indeed.

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6. llagosto (13)   ranked 49 out of 83 in child abuse   5 years ago

This is so sad and it really hit close to home-so many friends of mine give their children some type of medicine to make them drowsy and i think it is just so sad. I have 4 children and in all the time of being a parent i have never just given any of my babies medicine. Hell i get scared when the doctor gives them a presciption because i dont know the effects it could cause. Its sad for this baby and i also hope that they get the punishment they deserve.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

Very sad.

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7. myLot reputation of 89/100. nmhschic2004 (1095)   5 years ago

This is just horrible! I dont see how you could even think about doing that to your own flesh and blood. They should get more then 15 years in prison. They should get life. If they were stressed because of him being fussy they should have called the grandparents or someone else. They could have gotten away for a while to release the stress. I would never give my baby drugs to make him sleep.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

Life would be a better punishment.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. worldwise1 (6189)   ranked 63 out of 83 in child abuse   5 years ago

No self-respecting parents would ever do such a thing, Lifez! I shudder when I think of how horribly infants and children are being abused these days. They are treated as nothing more than property.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

You are right and it is very sad.

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9. myLot reputation of 83/100. Razzles (343)   5 years ago

This is tragic. It seems like these people would know better. People like this should not have kids. They were mainly doing this so they could get some rest. They were very selfish in this respect and it is a shame that the baby wasn't removed from their home earlier. I just don't have any sympathy for the parents.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

You would think.

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. loolets (1332)   5 years ago

Wow, this is UNBELIEVABLE. I don't give medicine unless they're sick. To do it otherwise is just plain drug abuse and child abuse. Don't they know children CAN fall asleep on their own? Just keep them busy and awake throughout the day.....that simple...


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1404)   ranked 4 out of 83 in child abuse  5 years ago

UNBELIEVABLE...indeed

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