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myLot reputation of 98/100. surveygrrl (781)   ranked 224 out of 27,605 in life1 year ago

I have a friend who counts on me all the time and gets mad when I can't just drop what I am doing on help.
My mother had me drop everything I was doing and fraked me all out over nothing yesterday. I ended up toating both kids, one not feeling well with a sinus infection, over an hour away to go run errands. BAH!

I wish I wasn't so reliable and niave sometimes. I always feel bad and end up helping when I really just need some time to get stuff done for myself or*gasp* sit down for a second.

 
 
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Flight84 (1785) response was accepted on 3/10/2008.
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tags:  count on you, too helping, friends, taken advantage of, favors
 
1. myLot reputation of 92/100. BuntingB (887)   ranked 3,229 out of 27,605 in life   1 year ago

I know the feeling. People are like that with me. And when I can't do something they get mad. I do get tired but they don't realize that. But have it the other way around then that is a totally diffent story. Sorry for the rant that is only personally speaking.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. Flight84 (1785)   ranked 494 out of 27,605 in life   1 year ago

Ughhh. I've had friends like that before and it's so inconsiderate for them to be like that. How can they expect us to drop everything and do for them? The thing is, the people I know that are like that are not the kinds of people that will do the same for me. I'm also the kind of person that will usually do what anyone needs me to do though. I hate being taken advantage of, but I also hate saying no.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. guss2000 (1019)   ranked 297 out of 27,605 in life   10 months ago

I'm always signing up myself for more and more favors for people. Just once, I'd like someone to do something for me!

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. cblackink (766)   ranked 555 out of 27,605 in life   10 months ago

Yes, and it's going to stop. I'm really tired of a particular person thinking I'm like some kind of "personal servant" to her. I burned that bridge tonight. And she's not even my mother! It's not my problem that she has no other friends besides me. She needs to get out and make some friends.