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myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com1 year ago

This is actually one of the title of my blogs at Yuwie. I wrote it upon seeing those potential friends of mine deleted me from their friends' list or rejected my request to add me up.

I can not fully explain how it feels. But a 'thug' in my heart. Maybe I am hurt but not that much. But just like in any other sites perhaps, if it normally happening, then I must accept it.

I am presently working on increasing my referrals and friends in different on-line programs I am busy engaged with. So, this happening is one of those 'hurtful' experience that I need to be strong in encountering.

How do you deal with this kind of experience anyways? Need some ideas here. Thanks!

 
 
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dreamy1 (1707) response was accepted on 9/27/2007.
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tags:  yuwie, rejected, friends, title, blogs
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. dreamy1 (1707)   ranked 79 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Thanks for sharing your feelings here. Sometimes, even if we don't know the person personally, the impact of being rejected or dropped really affects us.

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. barbaraeyre (228)   ranked 118 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

I don't take it personally either. It isn't going to make or break my career online if someone doesn't want me on their friend's list. You can still view their profile pages and rate their profile to add to your page view count.


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Yah, it sounds better. I will still view their pages once I have a chance so it will add up to paid page views. Thanks for the idea!

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3. myLot reputation of 73/100. everlasting (10034)   ranked 33 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

We can not do anything here but to invite other friends. Just consider it good riddance. It might be a case when you did something, like spam them, that they deleted you. If not, good for you. You do not deserve them.


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

I will get use to it soon. Maybe I was just a "little" affected by now because it happened to me for the first time in my entire one year of "online" career. lol

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. wondericequeen (3547)   ranked 13 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

That's weird! I notice that some of my friends there are not really active but I won't think of deleting them, you know? I hope they could come back and enjoy the Yuwie site. I am sorry it has happened to you. If you want to have one more friends, you are welcome to add me there. My ID is wondericequeen! Don't let that get you down, I am sure you will have more wonderful friends there instead.


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

I won't do it either. I won't delete or reject someone who could be a friend. I will perhaps block some who will cause me problems.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. Jemina (2239)   ranked 224 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

I have been rejected several times at yuwie but I don't mind. They are people I don't know personally and I guess they just want to be connected with their real friends.
You must understand that people want some privacy even online. Don't take it personally, there are thousands of them out there who would be more than happy to be in your circle of friend.
By the way, if you want to add me my username is the same. See you there.


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Yah, it is what I must consider also. They ae not really that sociable. That all they wanted was to be with people they personally knew and perhaps real friends. Thanks for the invites!


myLot reputation of 97/100. Jemina (2239)   ranked 224 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Yap, you're welcome and looking forward to a more socialization with ya. LOL!


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

You bet! Okay see you around! lol

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6. myLot reputation of 62/100. Valce1 (146)   ranked 360 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

Forget it, move on:P


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Yes I will. Thanks!

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. Stiletto (3125)   ranked 92 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

There are only 2 reasons I reject a friends request on Yuwie. Either there is something weird about their profile (I've had a couple of "swingers" asking to be my friend!) or else when I look at their profile all I can see is a load of stuff about referrals - how to get more, how many they've got, how to make money on Yuwie (yawn). I just find that very tedious and it's unlikely I would accept a friends request from someone that did that. I like to have friends that talk about interesting stuff - not just about how much money they make.

I wouldn't take it personally though - if people don't know you and if you don't fall into either of the above categories then they are just making a fairly random decision which doesn't reflect personally on you.


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

I see. Thanks for giving me an idea why some rejects invites to add up.

 
8. myLot reputation of 94/100. sanell (1690)   ranked 256 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

It can be very difficult at times, I think that there are a lot of websites out there that you can make money at which is great, but again, there are so many that it can be tough to keep up with those new ones, when you know that promoting them could be so lucrative. Then you have those stingy folks, who want true realtionships from everyone, and their expectations can be much higher than the average person (Like myself) ZBecuse they have time on their hands, unlike some of us more busier people (I do stay home but I take care of a 3 and 1 year old and both are quite active) I have a signon with Yuwie and I swear it is all I can do to get on line there even just one time per month. It can be very difficult so kudos to you for being as active as you are with all your many sites, I hope soon I can be better at doing that. I just have a lot on my plate right now it is just not even funny. I love mylot though and I cherish all my friends here, I would never reject you!!

Hugs

Sanell


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Okay, just make the best of your time. thanks for replying.

 
9. myLot reputation of 91/100. carmelanirel (5256)   ranked 5 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

Yeah it hurts, but I am use to it by now.

On myspace I had someone go as far as block me because I questioned her with what she was doing.

And I do have high standards and on Yuwie someone left a questionable comment and I deleted it and then they deleted me. Oh well, I think it is their loss and I just go on..

So if someone rejected or deleted you, forget them and go on..:)


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Yah, maybe I can just go on and search for other people who are willing to accpet and makes me their friend..without deleting me afterwards.

 
10. myLot reputation of 73/100. everlasting (10034)   ranked 33 out of 627 in yuwie.com   1 year ago

That hurts. I experienced this once and I was pissed off. I really do not know the reason why you have to reject friendship. I was thinking maybe this is good riddance since they are not worth my friendship. I just hope you didnt spam them. add me as your friend there.


myLot reputation of 97/100. izathewzia (2742)   ranked 22 out of 627 in yuwie.com  1 year ago

Okay, thanks for sharing your experience and feeling here.

 
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