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vjbmakemoney (3)4 years ago

I love my boyfriend but i feel we are not compatible we argue all the time. We have been seeing each other for 10 months and I still have not meet his family. He never buys little gifts or thinks that might make me feel special its all about him.. I ask him to look and see if he saw some earrings in the diamond district cause the ones i have must have been a ripe off and are not 18K I am allergic to 10 and 14k so he says no problem email me a picture of what you want. I did he had one more day in the discrict doing a class before returning to PA for work. That day he tells me well they didn't have quite what you wanted but low and behold i find out he had lunch with this chick. He never puts me as a priority and I am at the point that I really don't think this relationship is going to work

 
 
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tags:  relationships, relationship, love, boyfriend, leave
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (12410)   4 years ago

Before you just walk away from him, sit down and tell him how you feel. He may not realize how horribily he has been treating you and that you care how you are treated. If he doesn't shape up, then leave. You should not stay in a relationship that is not going to make you happy and you know will not work. You have to do what is best for yourself.


wubo123 (32)  3 years ago

of course


wubo123 (32)  3 years ago

i think so

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2. HARLANA (80)   4 years ago

If you feel you are not compatible then the signs of such may have been there from the very beginning and if you think back to how you to met that may help explain alot of what you are experiencing now. We so often want to ignore what is eating at our hearts in hopes of avoiding the truth about a relationship. Something is and has been missing for quite sometime with him and no matter what you try to do it will not change him. I do agree that if you feel talking to him about how you feel will get him to realize how he has been acting then by all means go for it but it seems the damage has been done and you seem to be more of a convience for him. You deserve better then that but only you know when enough is enough.

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3. myLot reputation of 76/100. QnAQueen (556)   4 years ago

the mere fact that you mentioned your relationship is all about him and he never prioritizes you, plus the fact that he was out having lunch with someone else when he was supposed to be doing something for you does not really sound right. i'd say i think you deserve better. you should learn to value yourself more and respect yourself more.

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4. myLot reputation of 76/100. QnAQueen (556)   4 years ago

the mere fact that you mentioned your relationship is all about him and he never prioritizes you, plus the fact that he was out having lunch with someone else when he was supposed to be doing something for you does not really sound right. i'd say i think you deserve better. you should learn to value yourself more and respect yourself more.

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5. myLot reputation of 57/100. naidugopal (891)   4 years ago

Hi friend, there is no mutual understand between u both. So why don't you try to make him to know what u feel what u like n hate. Make him to know about u fully. As u said that ur releationship has been from t he last 10 months. Then why don't you have mutual understanding. Try to make him know your likes n dislikes, You do him the same. Then your releationship reveals a strong unity of u both.

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6. slurner (2)   4 years ago

Take it from me sweetie- I've been down the aisle 3 times and I know what I am talking about... give the guy the boot! I know that sounds harsh,but you will find out someday that the old saying life is short is very true. Why waste your time on someone who lies, cheats and keeps you waiting? You deserve better, so go and find it. There are just too many guys out there to settle. Broken hearts DO mend- especially if you find that special guy. you'll never find him waiting and feeling sorry for yourself with this one.

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7. myLot reputation of 76/100. QnAQueen (556)   4 years ago

how sad it is to be in a relationship where you argue all the time. give yourself a break.


wubo123 (32)  3 years ago

you can tell he your feel and go

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. ebberts (727)   4 years ago

Love and relationships are a two way street. Both parties have to give and recieve from the other to have a happy relationship. When one or the other is feeling left out and taken for granted. resentment can build toward the other person. You don't want to end up bitter, it can follow you the rest of your life. You deserve to be treated as well as you treat the one you care about. Some people are just self centered and no amount of trying can change them.

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9. lambert (3)   4 years ago

Dump him it is for your own good . He needs to learn to treat woman right.

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10. blackdogpotter (97)   4 years ago

does he do anything right?

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