Those with BPD, if you could turn it off like a switch, would you?  

I have often thought about this and people have asked me my opinion about it. I've had bipolar for several years and its definitely been a rough road, but I don't think that I would trade the experience for anything. Through all the ups and downs it's made me the person that I am today. I think working through the worst lows of it have made me stronger and able more to handle mood swings as they come. I do agree with you about the manic periods, I get extremely productive and creative. I actually go out of the house, get into my music, draw and make an attempt to get my life and bipolar in order.

I am not BP but I have dated a couple of men that were and I am convinced that acceptance of your disorder is key. One was very open about it and warned me of his "dark" moods and said that he tried to stay away during those times so as not to affect others negatively. Our relationship didn't go far but because of his honesty and respect our friendship still remains strong. He is a wonderful person with much integrity and I admire him and how he has handled this very frustrating
condition. Now, I dated another man with the same condition that rather than own up to it, was in denial. It was horrible dealing with his negative moods which were fre quent. I finally just ended the relationship and to this day he will not speak to me.