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myLot reputation of 97/100. cynddvs (2190)   ranked 270 out of 25,753 in life11 months ago

If someone broke into your home while you were there would you know how to defend yourself?

Just last night I had a little scare. We've only been living in our house for a couple of weeks now so I'm still getting used to the new noises at night. Well last night I kept hearing something that seemed to be tapping at the glass to one of our doors. I got a little jumpy and ran around the house turning on all the lights. After that the noise went away so I figured it was just a small animal out there. Well just a little while after that I heard another tapping at our other door. I did the same thing and the noise went away. Then about an hour later after I went to bed I heard what I swore sounded like footsteps in my living room. My fiance wasn't home and I didn't hear his car pull in the driveway or the door open. And I went and checked on my daughter and she was sound asleep. So paranoid little me grabs my cell phone in one hand with 911 ready to dial and a large knife in the other (probably not the smartest move I know). I close my daughter room and start turning on all the lights and checking each room and closet one by one. Of course I found nothing. So either my house is haunted or I was just losing my mind last night.

So would you know what to do if someone broke into your house while you were there? After going through my little spell of paranoia last night and being scared out of my mind I'm seriously thinking about taking some sort of class or seminar about what to do in a worst case scenario so I'm prepared.

 
 
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carolbee (4089) response was accepted on 7/7/2008.
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tags:  self defense, home security, intruders, burglars, burglary
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6735)   ranked 415 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

I also get that same feeling, especially when I'm not much aware about the whole neighborhood yet. I get to sleep really late at night, I'd walk around the house from time to time and check if every windows/doors are secured.

I guess I can still handle burglars that would attempt to barge inside our house, since I have tons of tools that I can use as a weapon here!;) The only problem that I worry of, are those who are armed with guns since I don't have one yet.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. blackbriar (4945)   ranked 340 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

Could be a lil of both. I know I have my dad's spirit watching over me and 2 of my dogs', father/son, are also watching over me. In fact, I still feel them doing their classic turn-in-circles-before-laying-down on my bed most nights. A lil Paranoia is healthy anyways. If your not scared of anything then that's when something will get ya good. Just give it some time to get used to your new surroundings is all. Specially if you move from the noisy city to quiet country life where every lil noise sounds like the boogyman is out to get ya when it's just an animal rustling around outside.


myLot reputation of 98/100. blackbriar (4945)   ranked 340 out of 25,753 in life  11 months ago

Forgot to add that our dog, Domingo, took a longggggg time to get used to our country/woods surroundings cause he came from the city. He's an awesome 1st line of defense cause unless they get him 1st, they are in for alot of pain.

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3. myLot reputation of 77/100. viroop (122)   ranked 4,724 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

i always have this thought in my mind and always prepared in that way to defend the one who broke into my home and for tha egod sake i know the karatake and kick boxing fo r rescue my self and my family memebers from such kind of things


latanyalynn82 (16)   ranked 16,897 out of 25,753 in life  11 months ago

I am always prepared for the worst when it comes to defending myself, my family, and my home. Every time I move I make sure that I place certain defense items in a corner or nook just in case. Fortunately no one has ever broken into my house. But it's better to be prepared than to risk freezing up because I can't remember where my husband's weapons are kept. I don't want to have to think about how I'm going to take control over someone not invited in my home. It shouldn't be a thought. Especially if I'm home alone that night.

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4. myLot reputation of 54/100. latinvari (139)   ranked 10,947 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

if you would know to how defend youself you don t need a karate-do kung-fu or jinjitsu you need just one baseball bludgeon or little knife.if you have a big deep trouble you need a gun.45 maverick or colt 44 is best for defend yourself:)

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. Transdisc (13870)   ranked 424 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

It sounds like you had an unnerving night, cynddvs. I'm glad that it turned out okay for you and your family.

I have had a few occasions when people would sneak onto my property to either hunt or steal something. I have kindly invited these people to leave. It helps that I make my invitation with the aid of a firearm. Those things work wonders for these type situations.

I have never had someone come into my home. I truly suspect that if that line was crossed, it would not be good for them.

 
6. 2286272 (1)   ranked 15,627 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

If you sure that there is someone who is breaking into your house, calling the police of course, that is the most effective way.

 
7. myLot reputation of 94/100. hoghoney (2261)   ranked 327 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

New homes can play tricks with you mind and new sounds. I would be prrepared if someone broke into my home while I was there. They would have a very rude awakening coming to them when my boyfriend or me for that fact gets ahold of them they better pray to god they are prepared to run into us. I would not have a knife but what I would have will be bigger.

 
8. myLot reputation of 99/100. carolbee (4089)   ranked 212 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

I would recommend taking a self defense class of some sort. Maybe get your daughter involved in the classes also. Don't know what the minimum age is for kids but it would be worth getting information.

I have a softball bat in the house and would use that as self defense if I had the chance to swing. (My husband is a coach and we always have items such as a bat laying around the house.) Every now and then I have a golf club in the house too. Depends on what I've been doing. One good swing is all it takes and don't have to run the risk of going downstairs 7 steps to the kitchen area to get a knife. My best protection: our dog, cat and a burglar alarm.


myLot reputation of 99/100. carolbee (4089)   ranked 212 out of 25,753 in life  1 month ago

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. carlaabt (3075)   ranked 688 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

Unless they came in shooting, I've got a couple of dogs that would give me enough time to get the baseball bat. I wouldn't go for a knife because I would be afraid I would hurt myself. I have at least one phone in every room as well, so I would be calling the cops immediately as well.

 
10. myLot reputation of 72/100. southernpixie (719)   ranked 3,991 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

My husband took martial arts for a long time (I can't remember what belts he has though LOL) He has shown me some moves and how to get out of certain holds. But I still get scared when I'm here by myself and I hear something outside. I probably would have done the same thing you did lol.

 
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