do you really need to fall in love again in order to move on?
By rexiemay
@rexiemay (401)
Philippines
9 responses
@aseretdd (13729)
• Philippines
24 Oct 07
I don't think falling in love again is necessary to move on after a break up... although it would make the moving on process a lot faster... but then are you sure that you really are in love again... or are you feeling that way because you miss the feeling of being in love...
To really be able to move on... there should be acceptance of the fact that the relationship has ended...
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
29 Oct 07
I dont think that it is necessary to fall in love again to move on, the important thing that you must have in order to move on is to learn to accept the things that you know you have to accept. If you will be able to accept then you could start moving on even if you are not yet inlove. Sometimes we need to be alone with ourselves to learn to enjoy others life blessings.
@GardenGerty (169452)
• United States
26 Oct 07
No, that is rebound affection, not moving on. When you move on you learn that you are still a worthwhile person, while standing on your own, and you are confident and content. When you fall in love again as a rebound you often are anxious and fretful.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
24 Oct 07
No I don't think you need to fall in love again to move on. I left a 16 yr marriage, and decided that I needed to attend to me first. Went through verbal abuse, none physical, and needed to like me again. So I continued with my studies, got a job, and found that I didn't have to have someone in my life to be happy. I think that doing that and being on my own for a year helped not only me, but also was good when I did meet someone. We have been together now for over 2 years, and he is amazing. I think that by jumping from one relationship into another you don't give yourself the time to heal, and you just compound the problems by bringing extra 'baggage' into the new relationship
@viroop (155)
• China
24 Oct 07
i think after the real love thre will be no other love to any body who really hearted bad saying this with my experience and thier is one chance if one got who really love you and make worthy of it and share life with you and make you worthy of it then there is chance to love her again but thre no chance of to love again if true love is breaked
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
24 Oct 07
...'duh?'
...'of course not'
...'we all know that breaking up and moving on is not an easy thing to do'
...'but, not all the time...'we must fall in love again'
...'theres so many thing in this world that we can do for us to forget something'
...'and we still have our friends and family'
...'its just love'
...'we all have the love in our friends and family'
@akacipher (64)
• India
24 Oct 07
I feel it makes it easy to move on!! but then it is'nt necessary and also it totally depends upon the situation or the reaons for which the break up has happened. If after the break up one feels very dejected upset and lonely then i feel it helps a lot to get into a relationship and feel that you are again cared. But at the same time i would also like to tell that dont get into a relationship just because you have had a break up, get into one if you have some feelings..... or may be someone else has true feelings for you!!








