some people say first love never dies...is this true?

yes its true in my case....i had a crush 8 yrs back...but even now i have not forgotten her....our first love ll always stay in our hearts if v truly loved that person.....but i still havent fallen in luv after that...stilll single...:(

yeah dear,its never easy to let go of a first love its always had,its some thing one can not just explain,the euphoria,anxiety,its mix up.but so consuming.you just cant forget in a hury.

i don't know...i guess it depends, if you have real deep feelings. my first real love would be my husband, so i wouldn't know. hehehe sure i had been interested in other guys before, but nothing stuck. no feelings at all. no love left at all. just for my husband. so i guess, i didn't love other guys back then, after all. hehehe

In some cases I think its true. When you remember your first love with deep passion. Its the first time of loving and liking someone. But if its end in bitterness and cheating you will love to forget it.

eheh beh yes it's difficult sometimes..may be this is a statment that depends from people and overall depnds who was your first love..as person i meant!! if your first love was just an experience or somebody told that it can be an error because i was young and i didn't know much about it and so on..surely if your first love was aperson that you loved and had spent good time together i think you can remember it in a positive way...even because sometimes people when remember the past tend to remember the happy days and not the problematic ones ...:)

On my case it's true. My love for my first is still there, it will never lose. The difference between the love for my first and to my current is the intensity. The intense feeling of love for my first is not the same as we we're still together, it is now blurry.

Yes, your first true love will always have a special place in your memories and your heart. A first love, you share intimacy and a history with. There is also a reason why this person is an ex and not your current love. Something wasn't 100% perfect with that person and one or both of you needed to move on and explore other relationships and avenues in your life. When the time is right, hopefully we all find the person we find to be a perfect match to share the rest of our lives with. I have and it is wonderful! I did have the opportunity to sit down with my ex boyfriend after a 6 year seperation. We had occassionally shared emails during that time, but my memories had been clouded and tainted by what we shared. We sat down and had lunch last Thanksgiving and it was the biggest eye opener that I could of had as to what type of person he was and still is. It brought my husband and I closer. I had wondered before hand what my life would of been like if I had stayed with this other man and after sharing lunch, I know undesputedly that I would not be nearly as happy or content in love and life.

I agree with you that this statement is not always true, because usually our first love is kinda stupid. I also ended up wondering what in earth made me love such a guy, and I still don't understand what took me so long to leave him. It was just a childish crush that didn't mean anything

It does not necessarily mean that you're going to drop everything in your current life to be with that first love. I met my first love when I was in fifth or sixth grade (I'm not so sure now) and I know that might be a little young but he was my first love. We broke up about nine months later and we didn't get to see each other until after a year or so and I almost did go back to him but I knew it was for the better that we didn't. I really haven't seen him since and I don't really know what I would do if we would. I heard he has a child now, I'm not sure. I know I still have some kind of affection for him. I still care for all of my exes, but that doesn't mean that I am very much happy with the person I'm with right now.