Are You A Survivor

Yes Hon I am...I would be dead if I wasn't..
I have had some disappointments and lived through hard times both physical and mental...I have lost so many that I love..
We are all survivers in our own way..everybody has a bad time sometimes..
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I am a survivor, wolfie, but only in the respect that I have had to be. I made choices and commitments early in life that just wouldn't allow me to give up. I've had my share of adversity; been beaten down by life over and over again; cried because I had no other choice but to go on. Life isn't a game to me. It is a state of being and an opportunity.

I think if you always look for positive solutions and also do the very best with what you have ...it takes a determination to defeat problems as well as the will to overcome. I do think I am a survivor.

I guess I am trying to keep on going. The past 4 years has been nothing but crazy. I've bit my tongue when I've wanted to lash out at the world. I know that I should say something, but usually I go at it alone. Sometimes it feels easier that way. Sometimes you feel as if no one will really understand the way that you think. And, at times, no one will listen to you anyways.

I agree with you that life is one giant chessboard. However, I don't know how to play chess. I can't anticipate a persons next move, especially not my own. I hope that it's true that you're only given as much as you can handle.

...So many sayings are going through my mine. "If it doesn't kill you, it will make you stronger." "Cope or croak." "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade."
...Reading and writing are hope I cope. I believe God blesses us with the ability to cry because it is stress relieving, cleansing and rejuvenating. He also blesses us with the ability to laugh because it is the best medicine.
...One of the books I read that has provided me with some great tools for coping was THE COURAGE TO HEAL. And there is a work book that goes with it. There is also THE LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO. It is a daily reader and never ceases to amaze me how appropriate they are for the day.
...Laughter is such an important coping tool, I used to tell my BMT patients a joke everyday. Plus making others laugh lightens my load. I have to laugh at some of the cr*p my ex does or I'd cry and he isn't worth it.
...Surviving is easy. Living life to its fullest is difficult. Making the best of what you have demands creativity and exercise.
...Smile. It is alright to fake it until you make it.
...Peace be with you.=(^;^)= Della

Yes i am. there had been so many hard times with me. Life has never been lucky to me in any way. Still i keep fighting on. At first its seems a daunting task to fight against all these odds but later i know i have to fight.

i really don't know. i guess yes. i really like to be victorious in life. i really like to be tough and to be able to prove to the world that i am a strong person and that i can do ti.i really sometimes that i have so many difficultties in life. this site makes me feel happy. this place seems to take away my mind from the problem.

I am still surviving, I think. I've been to alot of misfortunes, lost a house then have been in debt left and right. But we (family) have somehow solved most of them, one by one. I'm not sure if what future may bring for me, so I still have to say that I am surviving.

Sometimes, we just laugh out our problems and forget it for the meantime. Since worrying too much about it won't help us, I believe that there's always a light in the end of every dark tunnel..

I am a very boy of very strong personality specially on mentality.when i face problem like this then at first i determine to solve it and then solved it.because it help me lot of time to solve the other problem too.

I t5hink I am partly survivor - I have had a lot of pain in my life - for as long as I can remember, emotional and physical and I do just try and struggle on although not always so well! A month or two ago things got very much on top of me which lead to a 'nervous breakdown' for want of a better word but still I fight on! I do need support and would not want to have to face all of my problems alone although I also feel that I need time alone to try and work my way through things. At the end of the day it is fight or flight and since I can't run very fast I guess I will just have to keep on fighting! Hugs babes xxxx