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MINISTRY28 (43)1 year ago

A question to the ladies. If u were raped, and did not get to a doctor in time. Then later got pregnant, would you go full term and keep it? Or give the child up for adoption? or would u abort it right away?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. nini168 (1361)   1 year ago

When I am raped, it is the saddest thing in my life. I think I can not accept another thing come with it in most case. And I do not think I have the ability to take care of a child only by myself, so I will go to the doctor to have an abortion if I can.

If my body can not suffer an abortion, I will give birth to the baby. Then I will work hard to support all of us.


MINISTRY28 (43)  1 year ago

thanks for your comment.

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2. myLot reputation of 17/100. UnselfishShellfish (1081)   1 year ago

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MINISTRY28 (43)  1 year ago

thanks for your comment.

 
3. myLot reputation of 46/100. GloomCookieLex (2186)   1 year ago

Abortion is my answer to any pregnancy, raped or not. Also, I would really not be stupid enough to not go to a doctor.


MINISTRY28 (43)  1 year ago

thanks for your comment.

 
4. myLot reputation of 22/100. Springlady (1882)   1 year ago

Hi ministry,

It would be a very terrible thing to go thru, but with much prayer and faith in God, I would have the baby. I have to realize that the baby would be innocent in all of this and that it is a child of God and He has a plan for it.

I'm not saying that it would be easy at all, but I would want to do the right thing.

God bless:)


MINISTRY28 (43)  1 year ago

thank you.

 
5. myLot reputation of 83/100. thatcrazyqbanita (2018)   1 year ago

without a doubt in my mind i would get an abortion


MINISTRY28 (43)  1 year ago

thanks for your comment.

 
6. myLot reputation of 84/100. chrislotz (5047)   1 year ago

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (15510)   1 year ago

I lost my virginity to a rapist when I was 13 and I was raped and beaten by 3 when I was 17...If I'd ended up pregnant by either attacks I would have aborted IMMEDIATELY....Dealing with being attacked is hard enough, when it is a very violent attack its even HARDER to deal with...the healing process is long, painful and devastating..the LAST THING I would ahve wanted added to it would be to carry my attackers baby!

 
8. myLot reputation of 71/100. shannon76 (634)   1 year ago

I would like to think that i could be strong enough to keep the child, but I am not sure in that situation. I would either keep the child or give it up to a loving family.

 
9. myLot reputation of 98/100. KrauseHome (8788)   12 months ago

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. carmelanirel (5712)   12 months ago

Why punish the child for what the father did? No I would not.


myLot reputation of 17/100. UnselfishShellfish (1081)  12 months ago

Why punish the mother? Why is the FETUS more important than the mother?


myLot reputation of 92/100. carmelanirel (5712)  12 months ago

Let's see, why is a child more important than the mother? Sorry, I can't think of a reason and if I could, that would be descriminating towards children..


myLot reputation of 46/100. GloomCookieLex (2186)  12 months ago

A fetus is not a "child", it's a fetus. The mother is more important because she is a living, breathing, feeling, and very traumatized person. Fetus cannot think, feel, or be self-aware. The woman will ALWAYS be more important.


myLot reputation of 92/100. carmelanirel (5712)  12 months ago

Really? Science is finding that is to be false..


StephAnne04 (28)  12 months ago

I would defintely not abort. I don't believe in abortion for ANY reason. I don't know if I could keep the baby, but if I couldn't I would give it up for adoption. The baby shouldn't be punished for what the rapist did. And of course the woman shouldn't be blamed either, but I don't think killing the child would make the mother feel better about the situation.

And by the way, a fetus IS a child. you destroy the fetus, you are destroying the chance of life. Everyone should have a chance to live.


myLot reputation of 46/100. GloomCookieLex (2186)  12 months ago

"Really? Science is finding that is to be false.."

Since when? Prov it. Site sources, not pro-life propaganda.

A first trimester fetus is physiologically incapable of feeling, thinking or being aware.


myLot reputation of 46/100. GloomCookieLex (2186)  12 months ago

"And by the way, a fetus IS a child. you destroy the fetus, you are destroying the chance of life. Everyone should have a chance to live."

A) A fetus is not a child, it has the potential to become one. And sorry, but potential doesn't mean spit in the here and now.

B)Why does the woman not get a chance at her own life? Why must she be made to become some dehumanized incubator for something she could never want? It's disgusting. Childbearing is a choice, not an obligation.


myLot reputation of 92/100. carmelanirel (5712)  12 months ago

And where do you find your updates?


myLot reputation of 46/100. GloomCookieLex (2186)  12 months ago

You're evading. Prove or concede.


myLot reputation of 92/100. carmelanirel (5712)  12 months ago

No, I was just wondering where you get your information from. Like did you know that using embryos are not needed for research?


myLot reputation of 46/100. GloomCookieLex (2186)  12 months ago

...Lmfao!!

First of all, yes you are evading because you are refusing to back up your innane and outlandish claim with real facts. And now you say that you don't need an embryo to study embyros? Oh,*do* explain how that one works.

 
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